Recently, while surfing the internet, I came across a particularly interesting phenomenon: topics about love perspectives always spark heated discussions. As someone who has been through it, I feel it's necessary to talk about this topic, especially the real thoughts of women.
To be honest, women today are really different from before. In the past, it might have been enough to find someone with good conditions, but now, what's more important is the alignment of values. As my best friend said, "I'd rather be single than settle." This statement really resonates with many people.
I remember once at a gathering with some female friends, when the topic of mate selection criteria came up, everyone unanimously mentioned the term "righteous values." It's not about finding someone perfect, but hoping to have good conversations, shared interests, and similar plans for the future. For example, one friend said, "I don't care if he's very wealthy, but he must be ambitious and able to grow with me."
When it comes to dating tips, I think the most important thing is to be true to yourself. Some men change themselves deliberately to please women, but it just comes off as fake. Actually, women are very smart and can tell at a glance if you're pretending. As the netizen "Deer in Headlights" said, "Sincerity is the best strategy."
Moreover, I think self-improvement is really important. It's not about becoming outstanding, but having your own hobbies and social circles. This not only makes you more attractive but also helps you meet like-minded people. Like a guy I know who loves photography and often participates in photography events, and that's where he met his current girlfriend.
Another important point is to learn to listen and understand. Many relationship problems actually stem from poor communication. Sometimes, what women need is not solutions, but your understanding and companionship. As the netizen "Sunny Day" said, "Sometimes when I'm angry, I'm not really angry, I just want him to care more about me."
Finally, I want to say that love is really not everything in life. Instead of constantly thinking about how to get into a relationship, it's better to first manage your own life well. When you live as the person you like, the right person will naturally appear. As I often say, "If you bloom, butterflies will come."
I hope everyone can find someone with aligned values and have a sweet relationship. Remember, good love is about mutual achievement, not mutual consumption. Keep it up!