Boys who have chased girls have all encountered situations where girls did not reply to messages. But some people can continue to flirt leisurely, some people start the same old awkward chat, and some people just give up. In fact, it's normal for girls not to reply to your messages. You should do it yourself. At this time, don't attribute the reason to girls not being interested in you, girls not wanting to talk to you, etc. Instead, think carefully about whether you are not showing off. What is your own interesting point? Is your topic too boring?
Optimistic people see hope from crisis, while pessimistic people choose to perish from good times. Just because a girl doesn’t reply to your message doesn’t mean that you are out of luck, but that there is something wrong with your method of flirting with girls. How can you answer the questions correctly using the wrong method, and how can you unlock your heart with the wrong key?
Adjust the routine of flirting with girls
Thousands of people have different personalities. Different people have different personalities. When flirting with her, you have to suit her temperament. Chat, if you tell an introverted girl all day long and make dirty jokes, or if you discuss philosophy with a carefree girl, this is obviously wrong. Therefore, flirting with girls also varies from person to person.
So if you chat with a girl you like and she doesn’t reply to your messages, you have to adjust your flirting routine and change your topics, opinions, and ways of thinking to match her personality. If you remain true to yourself, no matter how many messages you send, it may not help. Girls are reserved and emotional. Sometimes a few sincere compliments can make her happy for a long time. Don't forget to use some indirect compliments during the chat, as well as some topics that arouse her curiosity, and the conversation can often start smoothly.
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Girls are not like boys, so they should pay more attention to caring for their soft hearts when chatting. , there are some things you can talk about, but there are some things that girls hate. Besides, your relationship is not very deep yet, so she won’t directly say that something you said made her unhappy, and she won’t reply to your message directly.
So when you encounter a situation where you are not replying to your message even though you are chatting, a boy should go through the chat history to see if he said anything wrong, or talked about some sensitive topics, or did not Ask about privacy. If these situations occur, the chat content must be adjusted in time to resolve the embarrassment harmoniously.
Adjust the contact progress
Once a straight man likes a girl, he really wants to chat with the girl. , but your relationship is still unclear at this time, and you suddenly intervene in her life. It doesn't matter if a girl who can talk freely thinks you are OK, but some girls who are slow to warm up will retreat in response to this situation. Psychological.
The more proactive you are, the farther away she will be from you. So the frequency of chattingThe progress should be weighed based on your relationship. It is normal for a girl to ignore you at the beginning. Don’t be too impatient and talk to her too eagerly. Of course, it will only result in her not replying. At this time, you should Slow down your contact progress a bit.
