When getting along with girls, we often encounter this situation: no matter whether the other party is pretty or not, they always say that we are not good-looking; they are obviously versatile and can sing and dance, but they say that we are too stupid. If you follow her words at this time, you will be doomed.
You know, most girls are more reserved and tactful, and they don’t like to exaggerate their words. Although they are very modest on the outside, they still hope to gain your approval in their hearts. Therefore, praising them when getting along with them is very conducive to the upgrading of the relationship.
But these compliments should not be too deliberate, they must be real enough, and it is best to praise some details that others cannot notice. , only in this way will she feel refreshed and distracted.
Of course, this requires us to observe her carefully.
For example, if she doesn’t usually wear earrings, but suddenly wears them one day, we can praise her for her good taste, that the earrings suit her very well, and that they make people’s eyes shine when she wears them.
Because, if she can wear it, it means she must like it very much. When we praise her, it not only shows your intention and care for her, but also compliments her aesthetics. It is a double blow.
We can also praise her favorite animals, celebrities, movies, etc.
If she likes cats, we can take some photos of common cats and ask her what breed they are. Girls who like cats can usually tell her one, two, or three.
At this time, let’s say: “You know cats really well. It seems that you really like cats. You are the girl who cares most about cats that I have ever seen.”
She will definitely be proud and happy after hearing this.
As for her idol, even if we are not interested, we must not show any disdain or contempt.
Don’t pull her idols. For example, I think Cai Xukun is not as good at basketball as James. Although sometimes this is true, we still have to pretend to praise him.
We can say this, who is the most developed person in the new generation? What song did he sing? Come on, not bad.
This will not only make girls happy, but also allow them to expand the topic naturally.
In terms of personality, you need to understand the other person carefully and truly find her shining point.
If her observation skills are not good, we can always praise her kindness. After all, there are many good people in the world.
It should be noted that we cannot directly say "you are so kind", but implement the praise into specific events.
For example, I saw you playing with stray cats in the corner that day. You are so kind.
Savor it carefully, the latter sentence is more heartfelt and touching.
Or, we can be smarter and use other people’s words to praise each other.
If you have a mutual friend with a girl, you can praise her more often. If your mutual friend hears it too much, she will naturally say good things about you in front of the girl.
Hmm?! No mutual friends?
Tell you secretly, maybe you can add me and let me Be your mutual friend and help you.
Finally, here are some taboos about complimenting each other:
First, don’t be too exaggerated, as it will be untrue and make girls think you are unreliable.
Second, don’t say it too often. If you talk too much, you will become glib. We only need to say it at the critical moment.
Third, don’t praise her and her besties together, it will definitely become a disaster.
Fourth, don’t use earthy love words on the Internet to praise someone. If you don’t use it well, it will only increase your resentment.
Many times, what matters between people is not the content of the chat, but the atmosphere.
Girls are emotional animals. What she cares about is feeling. Whether we can continue a relaxed conversation with her sometimes depends on whether we can give the right compliments at the right time.
So, after reading today’s sharing, will you praise the girls?
