According to the word "love", we can see that relationships need to be maintained by "talking". As the saying goes, "a thousand cups of wine is too little when you meet a close friend, and half a sentence is too much to talk about it." When a couple is in love, when they usually chat, What kind of chat topics should be chosen to make the relationship better?
1. Use work and daily life as topics
If two people have not yet lived together, then when chatting with your girlfriend on WeChat, you can talk to the other party about some topics about work and daily life to increase the sense of reality. For example, tell the girl that she has been very tired these days and that the company is special. If you are busy, then ask the other person if they are tired and wait.
2. Use personal interests and hobbies as topics
Personal interests and hobbies are owned by everyone, and they are also the easiest topics to talk about. Couples can talk about hobbies and interests. It can help both parties understand each other better, and appointments during breaks can also be arranged better.
3. Use daily news as topics
When chatting with your girlfriend, you can also use daily news as topics. These topics can be Weibo hot searches, current affairs hot spots or life insights, etc. In short, tell the other person what you think so as to understand what the other person is interested in.
4. Use popular movies or games as topics
For boys, they may be more interested in games. Interests, but for many girls, they may be interested in TV series and movies, so when chatting as a couple, they can appropriately talk about some popular movies, TV series and games, establish common hobbies, and explore more topics.
5. Food
There is no one who is not interested in food, especially girls. Most of them are foodies. Even if they want to lose weight, their bodies are still very honest in eating. . Therefore, when you usually chat, you can talk about where the food is delicious, which store has the best milk tea, and then go there together when you are both free.
6. Your friend, her friend, or a mutual friend
Girls like to gossip very much. If you have a mutual acquaintance, you can talk about what happened to a mutual friend. Whatever happened, because she also knows her, you can chat quickly. If you don’t have any friends in common, you can also take the initiative to chat about interesting things happening to your friends.
7. The ex of the two people
The ex may be considered by many people to be sensitive or even It is a topic that cannot be touched. I believe many people know that if a couple talks about their ex, it may lead to a breakup or the resurgence of an old relationship. In fact, this is not the case. The more you are afraid and avoid something. Maybe you will break up for some reason, especially if you are a coupleNot being honest with each other about your ex may be considered by the other party as a sign that you want to break up. When you can be honest with each other, it actually shows that you love each other deeply and trust each other enough.
8. Two people’s dreams
Dreams are a topic that can inspire people’s fighting spirit. Chatting about dreams between lovers is a way to bring them closer and work together to realize them. The manifestation of common goals and mutual goals, only those who can see the beauty in life and create beauty together, and have determination and perseverance can go on together, even for a lifetime.
In fact, girls all like to talk. Those who don’t like to talk are just not interested. As long as you can find a topic that a girl is interested in, then she will naturally be willing to talk to you, and you will have more opportunities to pursue her.