In a WeChat chat, if a girl suddenly ignores you, it may be because of your certain attitude. This article will introduce two common attitudes, namely being too enthusiastic and being too cold, hoping to help you communicate better with girls.
1. Overly enthusiastic
When you are too enthusiastic about a girl, she may feel stressed and uncomfortable . This kind of enthusiasm includes:
(1) Frequent messaging: If you keep sending messages to a girl, and each message is very long, she may feel "bombed" by you.
(2) Too concerned: If you always ask a girl various questions, such as what she is doing, what she has eaten, etc., she may think you are too nervous.
(3) Take the initiative to date: If you always take the initiative to ask a girl out to play or eat, she may think you are too eager.
Solution: Reduce the frequency of sending messages, try to avoid asking too many personal questions, and let girls have their own space and time. Also pay attention to balancing your performance and not appearing too anxious.
2. Too indifferent
When you are too indifferent to a girl, she may feel that you are not interested in her. This kind of indifference includes:
(1) Slow reply: If you are always slow to reply to a girl's messages, she may feel that you don't pay enough attention to her.
(2) Talk less and be short: If you always reply to a girl’s messages in simple language and without any emotional color, she may feel that you have no feelings for her.
(3) Not taking the initiative to contact: If you never take the initiative to contact a girl, she may feel that you are not interested in her.
Solution: Reply to the girl’s messages in a timely manner and try to say as many meaningful words as possible to let the girl feel your care and warmth. At the same time, you should also take the initiative to contact the girl and let her know that you are interested in her.
In WeChat chat, being too enthusiastic or too cold will affect communication with girls. We should maintain an appropriate distance and balance, not only showing our care and enthusiasm, but also giving girls enough space and time. Only in this way can good interpersonal relationships be established.
