Although love is free now, there are still many friends who are still single when they reach the age of love and marriage because they are busy with work and study, or there are no suitable girls in their life circle. At this time, family and friends arranged a blind date and were no longer so repelled. However, a blind date involves chatting. Why not chat with a girl when you meet her on a blind date? What mistakes should you never make when chatting on a blind date?
1. Household check-style chatting is strictly prohibited
Because they are not familiar with girls on blind dates, many boys want to If you want to know more about girls on a blind date, you may ask them questions like "Where do you live? How many people are in your family? What brothers and sisters do you have? Where do you work? What do you do?" Questions like household registration. Although this is a sign that you care about the dating VN, in the eyes of other girls, they may think that you are rude and offended, and why should they tell you? In addition, the blind date market is very hot today. You may be the nth boy to ask these questions today. The girl has already answered them n times, and I really don’t want to repeat them again.
Moreover, you can ask your introducer to understand these basic questions about girls on a blind date. Then when you meet, you can directly say: I heard from XXX that you work in Chengdu, and I also work in Chengdu. , I work as a developer in a certain company, who are you? Explain your situation clearly first, and then ask the girl on the blind date, which shows your sincerity and seems natural, without feeling like you are deliberately inquiring.
2. It is strictly forbidden to ask private questions
When you meet and chat with girls on a blind date, you are not very familiar with each other after all. Familiar and very interested information is conveyed through the introducer area, so try to talk as little as possible about private issues at this time. For example:
This is your first blind date. Why were blind dates unsuccessful before?
How do you want girls to answer this question? For the first time, this may be the answer you want; the question is what if it is not the first blind date? You might not be happy if a girl tells you the truth; if she lies to you it's your first blind date and you think she's dishonest. Isn't this causing trouble for yourself? And it also made VN feel uncomfortable. It's not impossible to talk about such intimate issues, but it's definitely not something you should talk about during the first meeting. They're not that familiar with you yet. After you become boyfriend and girlfriend, you can talk about this kind of problem casually, and no one will care about you. As long as you are not afraid of being beaten, you can do nothing.
3. It is strictly forbidden to lower your head and play with mobile phones without talking
It's too common. Guys, if you feel you have nothing to say to the girl you're dating, don't keep silent and play with your phone. When we first met, you didn’t take the initiative to find a topic.Chat, do you want girls to find you? Where has the machismo gone at this time? Not to mention that when girls ask questions, you still ignore them. I kept my head down and played for half an hour, lost money for a meal, and didn't even get any experience.
I really don’t know what to say, so I’ll start with what’s happening around me, such as the food nearby and the recently released movies (be sure not to watch the kind that straight men watch), Although you don’t know the other person’s interests, this is a topic that most people like, so you can start a topic and move on to the next topic while chatting.
4. It is strictly forbidden to chat incessantly
Except for the problem of having nothing to say when chatting with a blind date Talking too much is not a good thing. For example, you said you were in IT, and the girl responded politely: IT is awesome, you are so awesome, those codes are so difficult, I can’t even understand them. You start talking about JAVA and if statements. Excuse me? You're talking about watts. I already told you that I don't understand the code. It is of course a good thing to chat with a girl on a blind date and have something to say, but you must not just talk to yourself, but increase the interaction between the two parties. When the other party stops talking and plays with his mobile phone, starts drinking water non-stop, and starts looking around, you should know that you should change Topic!
The so-called "It's okay to chat with girls on a blind date" is to always consider the other person's feelings, speak less if you don't know how to speak, and sometimes ask questions and let girls talk, and listening properly is also a way.
