When many boys are chatting with girls, they either forcefully find topics or check their household registration, which makes the chat seem very unnatural, and they may even say something wrong, and in the end the girls lose interest in chatting. Today I will share with you a set of universal topics for chatting with girls.
1. Eating
The topic of daily life is an eternal topic that is unlikely to go wrong.
But I don’t want you to say it
Male: “Have you eaten yet?”
Female: “Not yet”
Male: "Oh"
Then there were no more words.
Or making a temporary offer suddenly will actually seem very abrupt, especially when the two people do not have a relatively close emotional foundation.
Eating is an introduction.
When it comes to eating, you will learn about her tastes and preferences, so you can chat about cooking and understand whether the girl is a homebody who likes to cook and is good at cooking, and you want to make an appointment next time It will also be more convenient.
For example, if she likes desserts, you can just say, "I know there is a newly opened Internet celebrity dessert shop. It is super cute and I heard it is delicious. As soon as I heard about it, I thought it would be particularly suitable for you. Let’s go together someday.” Girls are generally interested.
Because your topic hits her interest point, and you also have information about her food.
Furthermore, when you want to deepen the topic, you can always say,
"We have the opportunity to cook together" Craftsmanship, look at my saliva, I wonder if I will ever have this opportunity."
"I just watch you cooking, I am so happy"...
And so on, then the ambiguous flirting can be further developed.
2. Use big topics to extend small topics
It is best to be relaxed and pleasant when chatting with girls, and use less preaching Teach each other in a serious tone and remember that you are equals and respect each other.
If you feel that there is nothing to talk about, using big topics to extend small topics is a universal formula.
Why is it said to be omnipotent?
That is, when you start a topic, start with a big topic, because small topics are difficult to spread and associate.
For example, although many girls like small animals, if you are dating a girl and you don’t know whether she likes it or not, if she doesn’t like it, then you can easily get into a minefield when chatting about small animals. .
The best way is to test the subject with a big topic to see the other person’s verbal tendencies, whether they like such things, and then change the topic according to the other person’s emotional changes.
Don’t have a purpose in chatting. It’s best to chat about topics that don’t involve your brain.
(If you turn on the philosophical mode after the relationship deepens, that will happen later and requires a certain understanding).
No matter what the topic is, it must reflect the "atmosphere", common daily topics, basically things in life, anything that does not involve obvious positions and three views, it can be anything, it mainly reflects the relaxed and pleasant atmosphere Atmosphere.
In this way, once a girl feels relaxed and comfortable, she will be willing to chat with you.
Tips: The general basic formula for chatting can be used:
The "state + feeling" at that time.
If you chat with girls in this way, you will never be afraid of running out of topics.
