What should straight men do if they can’t chat? What should a straight man do if he can’t speak? This seems to be a very common and annoying problem. In daily life, we often encounter such people who are not good at communication, are taciturn, and sometimes even seem a little indifferent. So, how to solve this problem? Here are some methods:
Understand their personality traits
Most straight men are quite autistic and introverted, which is due to their deepest personality traits. To build a good relationship with them, you need to first understand their personality traits, including their interests, hobbies, personality traits, etc. If you want to have a good conversation with them, you need to master some communication skills, including: listening, silence, inspiration, etc. In the process of communicating with them, you need to pay attention to their emotional changes, respect their feelings, identify their points of interest, and listen, comment, and ask appropriately to make it easier for them to open up.
Create a relaxing atmosphere
For straight men, sometimes chatting is a confusing thing Overwhelmed by things, they don't know what to say or how to express their feelings. In this case, you can try creating a relaxing atmosphere to help them open up. You can properly explore their interests by introducing music, movies, books, etc., and establish topics similar to them to make them feel comfortable and easier to talk.
Encourage them to express their ideas
It’s not that straight men are unwilling to communicate with others, it’s just that they are very unskilled in verbal communication and find it difficult to express their ideas. If you can help them break through this and give them encouragement and support, it will be easier for them to express themselves. At the same time, you need to learn to wait patiently for their expressions, do not rush or be impatient, and give them sufficient time and space to express their ideas and show their excellent side. This way, you can build a good relationship with them.
After learning the above methods, I believe you can already build a good relationship with straight men and establish a good communication model. If your friend is not good at expressing himself, then you need to take a proactive attitude to communicate and understand his interests, hobbies, ideas and topics. Whether it's learning to listen or helping them open up, it takes good effort and patience on your part. I believe that as long as you take it seriously, you will succeed.
