Everyone will be in a bad mood sometimes, especially girls who are full of emotions. When a girl tells you that she is in a bad mood, if you respond appropriately, your relationship is likely to take a step forward. So when a girl says she is in a bad mood, how should she reply to divert her bad mood?
1 , Give girls timely comfort
Emotions have a huge influence on a girl, and various things in life may cause them to be emotionally irritable, such as missing the bus, being late for the publication, being reprimanded by the boss, etc. Wait, so when a girl tells you she is in a bad mood, she is actually telling you about her bad mood. It's hinting to you: "I'm not well and I want your comfort."
If a girl is emotionally affected and causes her to tell you that she is in a bad mood, the correct reply at this time is to give her a prompt response Concerns, such as:
Female: I have been depressed recently
Male: Did you not sleep well?
Female: No, I was scolded by my boss, obviously It’s not my fault
Male: I’ll beat your boss to death for you and give you a big hug
2. Show understanding and approval to the girl
When the relationship between you and the girl is not very close, and she is in a bad mood because of some annoying things. Then you can express your understanding and agreement with the girl's words, resonate with the girl emotionally, talk to her from the girl's perspective, and make the girl feel that you understand her. You will establish a connection between you and the relationship will become much closer. . For example:
Female: I’ve been too tired recently and feel like I’m going to be depressed
Male: Me too, I can’t sleep well every day, and there are too many things to do in the company, life is hard
< p> Female: YesMale: The world is so big, I want to go out for a walk
During the chat, first express your understanding and agreement to the girl’s words, as if you hate someone, If the other person hates you, you will think this person is good.
3. Change the topic to divert girls from their bad mood
No matter in life or work, it happens every day Doing some repetitive things will over time create a negative and lazy mentality, giving rise to the idea of ????giving up. Then when a girl says she is in a bad mood, it may be because she feels tired and can't hold on and wants to give up, so she is complaining to you. Seek comfort.
Then when we reply to girls, we must also respond to girls in a targeted manner from these aspects.
When a girl says she is depressed, it is a matter of overwhelming negative emotions, and there are many factors that lead to a girl’s depression. It is impossible to solve them all for her, so I won’tYou should dwell too much on this topic and change the topic in time to divert the girl from her bad mood, for example:
Female: I feel depressed
Male: I was in a terrible mood some time ago. , but recently I discovered a particularly interesting thing
Female: Really, what is it?
Male: xxx (share interesting things)
In When a girl confides her negative emotions to you, if she just comforts the other person implicitly, it is likely to become her "emotional trash can", which is not conducive to the progress of the relationship. Therefore, you must understand the girl's emotions and go to her more frequently. Guide and divert girls from their bad mood.
