Are you chatting with girls and don’t know what to talk about? Do you just say whatever comes to mind? These are all wrong practices when chatting with girls! Chatting in the wrong way will only make the distance between you and girls grow wider. The farther you go, the biggest mistake is to use the wrong love skills when chasing girls!
Chatting with girls is like dating girls. The focus is not on chatting itself, but on inducing girls to like you. Maybe this is the fundamental reason why many honest and straight men don’t know how to chat. To a certain extent, chatting is a game between two people. If you can't guide a girl to like you during the chat, you can only chat awkwardly or be a bitch.
900 words to trigger good feelings:
1. Close the distance
Although you and the girl have just met and haven't met each other very often, you can use words to subtly close the distance between you and make you feel like old friends at first sight, making her unknowingly get closer and closer to you. .
Scenario examples:
1. When I saw the photos in your circle of friends, it reminded me of my (×first love×) high school days, and I felt like my youth was back.
2. Little night cat, are you still staying up late with me at this hour? Going to bed early is good for your health~
3. Every time I see your face, I feel like I can't divert my attention. There is some kind of attraction in you that locks my vision.
4. There is a smell on you that only I can smell.
2. Stimulate emotions
Many straight men say they don’t know how to chat with girls. In fact, straight men do Men are the ones who can arouse girls' emotions the most (because they tend to irritate girls the most easily). You only need to change your thinking slightly, and you will be able to create emotional resonance with girls - a sense of confidant, and the subsequent chat will naturally be like an endless river!
Scenario example:
1 , If I kiss you secretly when we are dating, will you be shy?
2. I think we will eat stinky tofu tomorrow, and Oppa will hold your hand for a walk. This scene is so beautiful. Yes!
3. Xiao Tiantian, I forgot to clock in at work today! (She may have also encountered this)
3. Show value
During chatting, unintentionally showing the value of boys is a cliché and key point in love and relationship counseling. However, how easy it is to do this varies from person to person. If you say it too hard, it will be like showing off. If you say it too lightly, it will be less powerful. The value must be shown just right!
Scenario example:
p>1. I feel the primitiveness in my bodyMy strength is about to explode. I just came back from the gym and I’m going to take a shower now. Do you want to come with me?
2. Working overtime. The company has been busy with projects in San Diego recently. The boss was in the United States during a video conference with us. Let's work harder.
3. The Tianfu International Airport project is very urgent, and my colleagues have been asking me for help recently.
