A sentence said on different occasions and at different times will often have completely different effects. The same is true for chatting with girls. So how should you control the scale when chatting with girls?
1. Hidden sense of need
Many boys are When chatting with girls, it is very easy to fall into such a misunderstanding:
Want to express oneself sincerity and dedication, but use too much force when chatting, giving girls a feeling of "she has to do it." "Don't marry me unless she is the one" pressure.
But what’s the result? Girls often can’t accept your sincerity, but instead think that you, a boy, are too hungry.
Therefore, the big taboo when chatting with girls is to make girls feel that "they are already obsessed with you."
A very key factor in determining the scale of the relationship between the sexes is: reveal your life and don’t let her feel that “you are pursuing her.”
To say a very true thing, love originates from attraction, rather than a person’s tireless pursuit.
You have to show your personal value to the girl by revealing your life elements in the chat, and only after you have a basic attraction and sexual impulse to her, can the relationship between you and each other be smooth.
2. Drive in moderation
If a girl likes you, she will occasionally drive and talk about something shy. The topic is actually beneficial to the relationship between the sexes.
But you have to understand: the purpose of driving is not to go fast, but to see the scenery along the way. Try not to start without warning and learn to put the steering wheel in her hands.
"I want to have a child with you" is called being a hooligan.
"It would be great if my future children could have big eyes like you." This is called a subtle compliment, and girls feel happy after hearing it.
At the same time, when you first start chatting, you must determine what the girl’s taboo topics are and what the bottom line is for her to accept in the chat. When a humorous topic arises, remember to observe the girl’s interest. When the girl is not in the mood, When you joke with you, no matter how funny the topic is, girls will get goosebumps all over their bodies.
One thing to remember: The biggest difference between "humor" and "skin" is that humor allows you to talk to girls about life, ideals and love through a vulgar truth. And "skin" means scratching one's heels and looking for trouble.
"It is said that the beauties in Beijing are all local, but in my opinion, you are an exception~" This is called humor.
"You look really like a very good-looking ex-girlfriend of mine." This is called skin.
Stop the car, look at the scenery, and talk about childhood and the future. An arrow can be shot out and pulled back. This isThe best sense of scale in sex chat.
3. Correct your identity
When chatting with girls, the most feared behavior is - —The girl has not yet established a relationship with you, or even wants to date you, so you restrict her freedom as a "quasi-boyfriend".
When a girl doesn’t reply to your message, you become anxious and ask her, “What did you do just now? Why didn’t you reply to my WeChat message?”
You think you are caring about her, but It really left her speechless.
Boys, please remember one thing: She just gives you a chance to get to know her by chatting with you. She is not your girlfriend, and you have no right to restrict her freedom.
The best sense of propriety in social interaction is actually to give 5 points of enthusiasm to the other party and leave 5 points of enthusiasm to yourself.
In other words, only when a girl responds to your enthusiasm can you give her more love. When she has a cold attitude towards you, then there is no need to be hot-tempered but cold-hearted. Instead, you should improve your charm and make her feel that "you are the best choice for a mate at the moment."
