Chatting with girls is a very interesting thing, but if you don't grasp the scale well, it will make the other party feel uncomfortable. So, how to grasp the scale of chatting with girls? Here are some suggestions to share with you.
1. Respect each other
When chatting with girls, you must first respect each other. Do not use vulgar or vulgar language or topics, and do not make fun of each other at will. If you want her approval and likes you, you need to act like a gentleman.
2. Don’t expose yourself too much
When chatting with girls, don’t expose yourself too much. Although some girls may like boys like this, most girls still prefer boys who are reserved and stable. Therefore, keep your privacy and secrets appropriately during chats and let the other party slowly get to know you.
3. Appropriate teasing
Appropriate teasing can make chatting more interesting, but you also need to pay attention to moderation. Don't use harsh or hurtful language to tease the other person, otherwise it will make the other person feel hurt or disgusted. Instead, use humorous, relaxed language to tease the other person and make her feel happy and entertained.
4. Don’t be too attentive
Don’t be too attentive when chatting with girls. Although you may want to show your kindness and concern, being too enthusiastic and proactive can actually make the other person feel stressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, you should maintain an appropriate distance and balance during chats to make the other party feel comfortable and at ease.
You need to be careful when chatting with girls. Respecting each other, not exposing yourself, teasing appropriately, and not being too attentive are a few points that need to be paid attention to. Only on these foundations can a good communication relationship be established and recognized and liked by the other party.
