Some boys chat with girls for the first time and they have a good conversation, but when they chat with girls for the second time, they find that the girls have become cold. Why is this?
In fact, the way of greeting is wrong. After all, everyone likes novel things, not to mention girls, so if the same way of greeting is used twice, the effect will definitely not be so obvious. Then chat with a girl the second time , what is the best thing to say at the beginning?
Since this is the second time to chat with a girl, it means that the two parties are still relatively good at each other. Familiar, so when you say hello for the second time, you must first clarify what purpose you want to achieve? Is it to invite, to establish attraction, or to flirt and stretch the relationship? This is very important.
For example, if you are still in a familiar but not ambiguous stage, then your first sentence can be "Hey, cutie." to stretch your relationship.
And if your relationship is already at a relatively ambiguous stage, then you can say hello with a more ambiguous opening line like "Hey, baby, I heard you miss me."
In short, you cannot make opening remarks blindly, but you must first determine the stage you are currently in, and then decide based on the situation. What kind of opening remarks should you use? Once you have determined the purpose, it will be easy to find some greeting words. If you are not sure about the stage you and the girl are currently in, why not send a smile or say you What are you doing, or saying hello in a humorous way is a good way to start, but remember the scale of humor and the control of humor. Too much humor will seem a bit deliberate, which will be self-defeating. If the scale of humor is too large, girls will think you are a gangster and block you directly. The humor must be just right.
For example: send an interesting and curious picture.
Post a photo of a dog in her circle of friends. Add text: Is this the dog you raise? It looks like a human! Another example is, I seem to have met you today, but I’m not sure? This way, it arouses girls’ curiosity in a slightly teasing way. As the saying goes: Curiosity The heart kills women. This is true.
Or set the avatar to Tang Monk.
Male: Wukong, why have you been alms for so long?
Female: Who are you?
Male: I am the master!
< p> Female: Dizzy~ Male: If you don’t come back obediently, master will starve to death.Female: Haha, but I am not your Wukong.
A humorous way of saying hello will bring you closer together in the first step, and then you can easily continue your first chat.Just talk about the day.
