The problem of opening up topics when chatting with girls has always been a problem for most boys. In fact, there are many techniques that I have collected in my spare time. When I use them seriously, my mind goes blank. Is it you I am talking about? ? In order to help you solve this problem, today, I will share with you some chatting skills that have proven to be effective.
How to open up a conversation with a girl when chatting
1. Act as an acquaintance
When we start chatting with a girl, we must directly eliminate the feeling of strangeness. Don't ask the girl what her name is, how old you are, and what you do. Only strangers like this can have conversations. So how should we eliminate this strangeness? For example, if you give her a nickname, you think, only people who know you well will give you a nickname, right? By the same token, does the person who gives you a nickname mean that you are very familiar with it? So if you give a girl a nickname, you will have successfully posted an acquaintance in her subconscious mind to chat with.
However, when giving girls nicknames, it is not random, such as little fool, little cutie, little girl, etc. Waiting can bring you closer to the girl. Never call a girl something like a fat bitch, a short girl, a black girl, etc. Once you call a girl these nicknames, a girl will try to block you. How can you put a distance between you and a girl?
2. Gradual emotional development
Although we can eliminate the sense of strangeness at the beginning, we are actually not familiar with the other party, so in the second stage we will It's time to release your information and collect the girl's information. The best way is to introduce a certain piece of information about yourself and add a sentence about you. For example, my name is Xiao A. As for you, I work in self-media. As for you, you can extract a piece of information about a girl. It can also allow our topic to continue effectively.
3. Clever value
A peacock must open its tail to attract the opposite sex to mate with it. The principle of peacock spreading its wings is equally effective when it comes to attracting girls. However, many boys will make mistakes and directly tell girls about their own value. For example, I work in a listed company. The supervisor, who earns more than 20,000 yuan a month, thinks that he can attract girls in this way. In fact, doing this is tantamount to showing off, and showing off generally cannot attract girls, but will arouse people's disgust. .
Then how should we correctly demonstrate our own value and attract girls without causing resentment in girls? For example, oops, I got soaked all over, spent more than an hour in the gym, and then paired it with a high-cut photoPhotos of the gym or muscles, or being stuck in a traffic jam and losing your temper, then send a short video of yourself sitting in a driving position and shooting the traffic jam in front, etc. In this way, we can show our driving to girls. It can also give girls something to talk about. So the correct way to show value is to add emotion to value. Boys, have you learned it?
