In the same chat, some people can increase their goodwill by chatting with girls, while some boys chatting with girls make girls want to chat with them less and less. This is the difference in chatting skills, which will lead to different results. So how should you chat with girls to increase your affection? The more we talk about feelings, the closer we get.
1. Looking for good topics
If you start a chat with a girl by talking about Mao Zedong’s swim in the Yangtze River, the conversation lasts for three minutes;
If you If you start a chat with girls about the Sino-US trade war, you may be blocked after talking about this;
When chatting with girls, a good topic is a stepping stone. So how should you find topics to talk to girls?
When looking for topics with girls, try to find something related to girls. You can check the girl’s circle of friends before chatting. If you can’t see it or don’t know the girl well enough, you can talk about food, drink, fun, hobbies, etc. Movies, horoscopes, gossip, music, travel, books, etc., or sharing your daily life with girls are all okay, but be careful not to pretend to understand. If you don’t know, you can learn about it yourself in advance.
For example, if a girl likes to play games, you can start the topic with games. This is the simplest. Maybe you can directly take her to play games later.
2. Learn how to chat with humor
If you can be more humorous when chatting with girls, humor It can effectively bring you closer to a girl. For example:
Male: "When God opens a door for you, he will close the window for you."
Female: "It is pitiful that God opens both the door and the window." I closed it."
Male: "Maybe God is a warm man and is afraid of freezing you."
Female: "You want to laugh me to death and then inherit my ant forest. Sen, right? (Ant Forest probably means Huabei)"
Male: "Isn't it just that I will inherit your forest? I will keep it for you. I like nature."< /p>
If you can make girls feel happy and happy during the chat, then your chat will be successful.
3. Understand girls’ emotions
Of course, when chatting with girls, you should actually pay attention to understanding their psychology. , because girls are more emotional and pay more attention to feelings, and girls’ psychology will also change during your chat. So some boys may not understand it very well, so understanding girls' psychology is also a skill. If there are few girls around you, you can use some social software to get to know other girls. If you have more contact, you will know.
Finally, I would like to mention some taboos for chatting with girls: Do not forcefully flirt with you, and do not be vulgar or vulgar, as girls will be very disgusted. Do not ask girls on dates or ask them to send photos or the like. You can share more about your daily life, let her see the excellent you, and she will naturally develop a good impression of you. You can establish a sunny and cheerful image of a big boy in front of girls, and naturally, girls will have a good impression of you.
