Many boys have a lot of headaches when they are chasing girls. Today I will summarize some chatting tips with you and tell you how to chat with girls so that you can talk about feelings?
1. Don’t turn modesty into innuendo
Chatting is about one-on-one communication and mutual respect. This is the most important thing. At least. Everyone seems to be able to basically understand the exchanges between you and me, but respecting each other may not necessarily be achieved.
If you don’t believe me, please read the following:
Female: That’s it. I ate too much today and I’m so fat!
Male: Where did you gain weight? How much do you weigh? ?
Female: She’s almost 120, she’s almost turning into a pig, and she’s too embarrassed to see people!
Male: Then don’t eat with pigs!
Woman: I’m talking about myself, but I’m not talking about you. How can I be so angry?
So, when chatting, you must keep your eyes open. Are you fat or is she fat? Don't you know something in your mind? Sometimes you do think that girls are not fat, but most girls are dissatisfied with their weight and envy those thin boys.
If you continue to develop like this, you might as well stop looking for a partner and build a new city next door to Zaun. The people of Zaun will respect you.
2. Rushing to be a family
Some boys and girls have chatted back and forth for so many times that they feel If you are good enough and you are good enough, when others use you as a support, you rush to become a family member, so you start to say things that only family members can say unscrupulously.
For example:
Female: I am annoying our boss to death. I just change the plan back and forth without saying how I want to change it!
Male : Stop complaining every day. There is no such thing as easy in the adult world.
Female: I'm sorry, but my scope is too small...
Look at the way you are seeking death. Originally, I thought of you as your future boyfriend, but you are rushing to do it. dad.
Can’t you just let her scold the boss and give her a few words? Justice is so awe-inspiring and untimely~ There is a saying that is good, don’t rush to say it before the needle pricks you. It doesn’t hurt, just enjoy it.
3. Don’t just nod and ask why
Some boys are detained for no apparent reason. Licking dog hat.
Boy: Obviously I like watching movies and playing games as much as she does, so why can’t I say “me too”? You can be the same, you can be the same, but why is she the same as you? , you should ask!
Come, let’s take a look at the negative teaching materials:
Female: I don’t like shopping very much
Male: Me too
Female: Oh
Correct demonstration:
Female: I don’t like shopping very much
Male: I don’t like it either, mainly because I feel tired. Why don’t you like it?
Female: Not really, it’s because of &*& ……&
You see, when you ask a question, the other party can then answer it. You use such a question to not only naturally show your concern and liking for her, but also to follow it up in the future. Let's chat slowly and slowly, can she not be tempted by you?
