Some people may add WeChat before going on a blind date, and see if they can chat before deciding whether to meet; but some people may think that they should meet each other first to see each other’s appearance, speech and behavior before deciding whether to meet. Please add WeChat to continue chatting. So how should we chat after adding WeChat after the first blind date?
1. Hi/Hello/Hello
Before knowing more, the more ordinary and ordinary the safer it is. It is the first time for two unfamiliar men and women to say hello. If there is no risk, there is no danger. Girls generally will not refuse this kind of greeting.
2. I am xxx mentioned by xxx
No matter whether you have met the girl on the blind date or not, , do you know each other? It is more polite to introduce yourself first after adding WeChat on a blind date. Although others introduce you to each other for the purpose of blind date, when introducing yourself, you should weaken the words such as blind date introduction and just say "mentioned" lightly when introducing yourself. It is easier for the other party to lower their defenses, and in a relaxed state, it is easier to start a pleasant chat.
3. I’m very happy that you accepted my friend request, thank you.
Appropriately and appropriately expressing your joy of getting to know the other person can make the other person feel happy too. When you are in a happy mood, you will want to talk more.
4. We should not have too much pressure, just make new friends.
Some of the blind date partners who can get their contact information are willing, some are half-hearted, and some are even unaware of it. But most young people are not opposed to making new friends. In this way, everyone is willing to try to chat. As long as they are willing to chat, it means there is an opportunity.
5. Start with the other person’s interests and hobbies
“I heard xxx said you like traveling, is there anything worth recommending?”
“I heard xx said you like traveling. Do you have any recommendations for reading? "
"I heard xx said you like xx" must be based on objective facts.
Don't speculate or make random remarks. If the other party replies : "I don't like traveling." That would be embarrassing.
Generally, girls on a blind date are better at talking about their hobbies. At this time, if you ask for a small request for help, most of them will not refuse, but will sincerely recommend you and talk about the things you like. It can pave the way for future meetings and dates.
Finally, when chatting on a blind date and on WeChat, try to focus on relaxed and pleasant topics, talk about interesting things in your life, and small things in your childhood. , situations in life or work are all good choices. More importantly, it must be able to arouse a girl’s interest, so that she will be willing to actively talk to you.Keep talking.
