Girls are very insecure. If you don’t have any skills when chatting before you have met, it will be difficult for girls to open up the conversation, and they will even become more and more awkward as you chat. So how can you not chat with girls you have never met? Would it be embarrassing?
1. Chatting must be relevant
We need to know that when chatting with girls, under normal circumstances There will be no deadlock or dead chat, but many people still end up chatting without talking. In fact, there is a lack of contact and good interaction in the chat. For example:
Male: What are you doing
Female: Lying down
Male: Didn’t you go out to play on the weekend?
Female: There is no fun outside
Male: Indeed
Many boys here tend to answer girls’ questions when they choose to continue the topic, so it is easy to become passive or have to change the topic.
The correct approach is:
Male: What are you doing?
Female: Lying down
Male: Didn’t go out to play on the weekend ?
Female: There is no fun outside
Male: People who don’t go out to play have no soul
Female: So you are a good fun person Guys
Male: People who are very playful don’t have time to play with mobile phones
When boys face questions raised by girls, they should first clarify themselves and use interesting Refute the girl's questions and show that you are an interesting person, and the girl will be more interested in continuing the conversation.
2. Make chatting interesting
If you want to make chatting with girls interesting, you must To have an "interesting soul" and an interesting soul requires you to be able to fully answer the other party's questions while indirectly expressing yourself during the chat. For example:
Male: People who don’t go out to play have no soul
Female: So you are a very playful person
Male: Yes People who play don’t have time to play with mobile phones
Female: So am I chatting with a soulless person?
Male: It’s my heart that’s chatting with you. But the soul has drifted to you
Girl: Where is it? Why didn’t I see it?
Use jokes to answer the girl’s questions, use humor to change the topic, and create a A relaxed and pleasant atmosphere for chatting.
3. Let the invitation take its course
When you feel the atmosphere is good while chatting, you can invite girls to meet. Okay, when dating a girl, you should pay attention to letting nature take its course., instead of directly saying "Let's meet", you can use this method:
Male: (Send a photo of delicious food) There is a newly opened restaurant, their grilled fish is delicious
Female: It looks pretty good
Male: Do you like grilled fish?
Female: It’s okay, I like hot pot
Male: I know a shop. Their hot pot is very special. If you have time, go and try it.
Female: OK