How can I avoid being embarrassed when chatting with girls I haven't met yet-



Girls are very insecure. If you don’t have any skills when chatting before you have met, it will be difficult for girls to open up the conversation, and they will even become more and more awkward as you chat. So how can you not chat with girls you have never met? Would it be embarrassing?

1. Chatting must be relevant

We need to know that when chatting with girls, under normal circumstances There will be no deadlock or dead chat, but many people still end up chatting without talking. In fact, there is a lack of contact and good interaction in the chat. For example:

Male: What are you doing

Female: Lying down

Male: Didn’t you go out to play on the weekend?

Female: There is no fun outside

Male: Indeed

Many boys here tend to answer girls’ questions when they choose to continue the topic, so it is easy to become passive or have to change the topic.

The correct approach is:

Male: What are you doing?

Female: Lying down

Male: Didn’t go out to play on the weekend ?

Female: There is no fun outside

Male: People who don’t go out to play have no soul

Female: So you are a good fun person Guys

Male: People who are very playful don’t have time to play with mobile phones

When boys face questions raised by girls, they should first clarify themselves and use interesting Refute the girl's questions and show that you are an interesting person, and the girl will be more interested in continuing the conversation.

2. Make chatting interesting

If you want to make chatting with girls interesting, you must To have an "interesting soul" and an interesting soul requires you to be able to fully answer the other party's questions while indirectly expressing yourself during the chat. For example:

Male: People who don’t go out to play have no soul

Female: So you are a very playful person

Male: Yes People who play don’t have time to play with mobile phones

Female: So am I chatting with a soulless person?

Male: It’s my heart that’s chatting with you. But the soul has drifted to you

Girl: Where is it? Why didn’t I see it?

Use jokes to answer the girl’s questions, use humor to change the topic, and create a A relaxed and pleasant atmosphere for chatting.

3. Let the invitation take its course

When you feel the atmosphere is good while chatting, you can invite girls to meet. Okay, when dating a girl, you should pay attention to letting nature take its course., instead of directly saying "Let's meet", you can use this method:

Male: (Send a photo of delicious food) There is a newly opened restaurant, their grilled fish is delicious

Female: It looks pretty good

Male: Do you like grilled fish?

Female: It’s okay, I like hot pot

Male: I know a shop. Their hot pot is very special. If you have time, go and try it.

Female: OK


2 chatting skills with girls that are better than “flattering”