Most of the reasons for having no topic when chatting with my girlfriend are because the two of them have not been together for a long time and do not know each other very well. In other words, both parties have not really let go and are worried about talking too much. , said something that shouldn't have been said, and offended the other party. That’s why we chatted and didn’t know what to talk about. So how to solve this situation?
1. Talk about daily life
In fact, when two people chat together, there are so many topics to talk about. They only talk about daily life. Living conditions, three meals a day, how your mood is throughout the day, what you see and hear every day, new, interesting, happy, unhappy things, etc. These are the main topics for chatting.
2. Talk about each other’s work
If two people both work, the most talked about topics are They talk about each other’s work conditions, their performance at work, various things they encounter in the workplace, happy things, and troublesome things, but most of the time they talk about troublesome things, and things they encounter when getting along with colleagues. What kind of difficulties you have encountered at work, etc. Talking about such topics is to get the other party's care and support.
3. Go on more dates, watch movies and cook meals
If there is no topic to talk about, just find something to talk about. Usually two people go on more dates, spend more time together, and go to movies more often when there is nothing to do. , the relationship between the two people is very familiar, so naturally they can talk about anything. If they usually meet once a month or two, then naturally there will be nothing to talk about. They can watch movies and talk about what types of movies each other likes. They will be released recently. What kind of movies, etc., who is your favorite actor? Usually two people cook together. As long as they are familiar with each other and have a deep relationship, there will naturally be many topics they want to talk about.
4. Say sweet words
When chatting, boys can say sweet words to make girls happy. This will break the awkward situation of having no topic to talk about, and can also enhance the relationship between two people, so that they will not have too many worries in the future, and can tell each other everything they want to say in their hearts. Once the relationship is deep and each other already has the presence of the other in their hearts, they become interested in chatting.
5. Talk about the future of two people
If there is no topic to talk about, it is still caused by unfamiliarity. Now that we are familiar with each other, we can talk about the future life of two people. Future plans, such as getting married, meeting both parents, what issues should be paid attention to, the topic of marriage is enough for you to talk about a lot.
6. Cultivate the same interests and hobbies
If there is no topic to talk about between lovers, then cultivate one Common interests and hobbies, the samePeople with different interests and hobbies will naturally have common topics. Even if they both like to play the same game, they will have topics to talk about, such as game skills, strategies, etc. The more similar interests and hobbies, the more topics they can talk about.
Talking about these things can increase the relationship, especially for couples who have just been dating for a short time. Talk about the future. At least you want to have a future with her.
