Originally, chatting with girls should be a happy and joyful thing, but many boys easily fall into a question-and-answer format when chatting with girls, which makes people feel like they are being interrogated by girls, which makes them feel uncomfortable. So what should you do if chatting with a girl feels like you are being interrogated? It can only be said that you need to learn to take the initiative in chatting. Let’s talk about how to do it specifically.
1. Learn to change the subject
If a girl asks you this question, it is purely because you are now in a cold chat situation, and she is trying to find a way to break this embarrassing situation, so she Ask questions that make you feel like you're being interrogated. In this case, it is not the time to accuse girls of low emotional intelligence, but you need to reflect on yourself, why don't you take the initiative to change the topic, but let the girls break the cold situation. So now it would be better if he just changes the subject.
For example, if a girl asks you if you have ever been in love? How did you break up with your ex-girlfriend? At this time, there is no point in prevaricating the past by simply mentioning the past, and then turning to the present and future things that I need to consider. Turn the topic back to you and the girl. When the girl hears this, she should know that you don't want to discuss things about your ex. (And regarding your ex, as long as you answer, whether it is right or wrong, it may make the current person uncomfortable, so the last thing is not to answer and then change the topic)
2. Avoid answering
Some girls will ask some private and relatively private questions under the guise of getting to know you, making you feel offended. This kind of girl is actually very gossipy, or does not understand the sense of boundaries, which is what we commonly call low emotional intelligence. In this case, if you don't want to answer, just avoid answering, or take the initiative to ask her the same or similar questions to see how she reacts.
At this time, boys must be careful and don’t think that just answering honestly is enough. Because some girls like to start asking insensitive questions step by step. Once you answer a few questions honestly, you will form a habit of not answering sensitive questions later. At this time, regardless of how good the conversation was earlier, you can let her know with a cold face on the spot. You can just smile and not answer if you've crossed the line. She'll make you uncomfortable with question after question to the point where it feels like an interrogation, so don't be afraid of embarrassing her. Otherwise, even if you are together in the future, you will still suffer.
If you don’t want to feel like you are being interrogated when chatting with girls, the best way is to know some topics that girls are interested in in advance. If you and girls are chatting happily, then girls will not I'll be bored and ask you some questions that you don't want to answer.
