When we go out to eat or shop with girls, we often hear them say "whatever". What should we do to answer with high emotional intelligence and make girls feel comfortable? The following will introduce them one by one to you.
Actively ask and formulate a plan
When a girl says "whatever", we can try to actively ask the other party's opinion and work out a plan based on her answer to better solve the problem. For example: "Is there anything you particularly want to eat? If not, we can try some new dishes." In this way, girls can feel your care and initiative, and increase their liking for you.
Provide our own opinions
When girls say "whatever", we can also provide our own opinions, For example: "I recently went to a good restaurant and thought the food was delicious. I wonder if you are interested in trying it?" In this way, you can show your taste to girls, increase their trust, and also This can avoid the awkward scene where two people are hesitant about each other.
Let girls make decisions
When a girl says "whatever", we can also let her make decisions directly and respect her choice. For example: "It's up to you. What type of dishes do you like? Let's try it?" In this way, girls can feel that their ideas are respected, and at the same time they can show their opinions and abilities, and increase Self-confidence.
Create a pleasant atmosphere
When girls say "casual", we should pay attention to creating a high-quality atmosphere, which can be achieved by choosing an elegant and distinctive place. For example: "I heard that this restaurant is cooked by a famous chef. How about we try it?" In this way, girls can feel your thoughtful arrangements and enjoy a high-quality dining experience, which will increase their liking for you. .
How to answer a girl’s “whatever” question needs to be decided based on the actual situation and the girl’s personal preferences. But in general, we should always remain positive, proactive, respectful and create a pleasant atmosphere, so that we can respond to girls' "whatever" with high emotional intelligence and convey our true feelings and care to her.