When I was chatting with a girl I just met, I thought the conversation was okay and the girl responded well. However, after a while, the girl gradually stopped replying while chatting. What is the reason?
1. Why do girls stop replying while chatting?
Usually, girls stop replying while chatting. Generally, there are three reasons:
1. Your topic is too boring
2. The interactivity of the topic is very poor
3. The two parties are not in the same "channel"
< p> No matter which one of these three reasons, the final analysis is that you have not found the girl’s point of interest, so that the girl is not interested in chatting with you, so she will not reply to you.2. What should I do if a girl stops replying after chatting?
So I want to solve the problem of girls If you don't reply to this question while chatting, you need to learn to find the girl's points of interest in the chat and make articles based on her points of interest. So how can we find the points of interest in girls’ words?
1. What girls often say when chatting
Girls are emotional creatures, and they like to share feelings. , when a girl mentions something or a certain keyword more than twice intentionally or unintentionally during the chat, then these things and words are the girl’s points of interest, such as:
Male: Today’s weather very nice.
Female: I almost froze to death when I went to Shanghai last time.
Male: It would be better to eat a bowl of wontons in the morning.
Female: Yes, I was a wonton noodle lover when I was in Shanghai. It was super delicious.
Here, many boys will think that girls want to talk about food with them, but in fact, the keyword that appears repeatedly in girls’ speech is Shanghai, and girls subconsciously want to talk about Shanghai.
Therefore, we can completely start the topic based on the keyword Shanghai, such as:
"When will you Did you go to Shanghai?"
"Is Shanghai fun?"
2. What do girls focus on answering when chatting?
Many boys complain that when chatting with girls, She always replies um, oh, which always feels very perfunctory, and she keeps changing the topic. When a girl brings up a topic to you, you should pay attention when there are many replies, such as:
Male: Today It's too cold.
Female: Yes.
Male: What are you going to do today.
Female: Rest.
Male: I am ready to finish watching "Fortress Besieged" today.
Female: Are you reading Qian Zhongshu? This is a satirical novel with a unique style.
WithDuring the chat online, it is not difficult to see that the girls are not very interested in what the boys in front of them mentioned, but as soon as "Besieged City" is mentioned, the girls' replies become more and more, so don't change the topic at this time, and It is to have an in-depth chat around "Fortress Besieged".
3. Chat with the other person about "her" and keep expanding on a topic.
When you encounter a girl who does not mention keywords repeatedly during the chat, and does not respond enthusiastically to a certain topic you raised, it means that the topic you are paying attention to is not of interest to girls. It is best to It is to talk about "her" with the other party.
1) Find topics based on a girl’s circle of friends
A girl’s circle of friends is what a girl wants to show off. If a girl is willing to show something to others, then it must be something she is interested in. For example, if a girl posts her fitness photos, you can chat with the girl about fitness.
2) Talk about her happiest things
Here you can start with "You are very happy (sad) recently" to guide the girl to talk about her own happy or sad things. , but compared to those sad things, try to talk to girls about happy things, because only when girls are in a better mood, they will talk more.
3) Talk about her hobbies
Usually it is photography, food, fitness, etc. Talk to a girl about your hobbies. In short, chatting is a way to suit her interests. process. Don't change the subject just to change the subject. Change the subject to help you find something that you are both really interested in.
