When chatting with girls, you don’t have to talk if you don’t have a topic, but you must not chat awkwardly. If you have nothing to say and force an awkward chat, it will only make girls lose interest in chatting with you. However, some boys even prepare enough topics. It always makes chatting awkward. What should we do in this situation?
How to avoid awkward conversations when chatting with girls?
1. Improve yourself
When chatting with girls, even if you prepare a lot of topics, it still happens that the conversation is awkward. Most of the time it is because your chatting method is wrong. Simply put, it is due to lack of experience.
Therefore, you can usually read more books and pay more attention to the hot spots in real society; you can also pay more attention to current affairs news, which is a universal topic that can be used in a wide range of areas.
Brothers who have time can also browse the news and newspapers every day, collect some gossip topics, and then use them immediately. Let me tell you, the more real-time the message is, the more lively the chat atmosphere will be. The purpose of reading these things is actually to develop what you are good at and to have your own opinions on things; generally speaking, girls have a certain degree of laziness and like boys who are opinionated.
2. Focus on the other person
Chatting is always a matter of two people. If If you blindly talk about yourself and make girls unable to take the conversation, they will naturally fall into awkward conversations. Therefore, if you want to avoid this situation, you must constantly focus on girls as the main subject of the chat, and talk more about Her affairs and people all want to be noticed. In this way, the chat will be smoother and smoother.
3. Compliment the other person
If you really don’t know what to talk to the other person, then you can praise her. It doesn't matter how small it is, compliments are a basic part of small talk and will avoid awkward situations. Maybe some brothers don’t know how to praise. It’s actually very simple, as long as you can see the parts, such as clothes, jewelry, hair color, some small details, etc. These can all be praised.
4. Share the status of the day
You can talk about interesting things that happened to you recently, or what you did that day You can share interesting things with her, such as what you had for breakfast, it was delicious and you can take her to eat next time, or you may say that the driver you met was very humorous, or you may comment on how the weather is and add your own feelings. Share your status and feelings of the day.
