If the confession of love is rejected, the two people should cut off contact. However, sometimes a girl will keep in touch even though she refuses to confess her love. In this case, many boys will think that there is still a chance. In fact, this is not the case. What is the psychology of girls who still keep in touch?
What is the psychology of girls who refuse to confess but still keep in touch?
1. I don’t want to lose your spare tire
Generally speaking, if I don’t confirm a relationship with you, But she is tired of being with you, accompanying you to various gatherings, and taking you with her whenever she goes out for fun. When people around her tease you that you are "like a glue", the woman decisively stands up and refutes, claiming that you are just a pure boyfriend and girlfriend. .
Stop thinking nonsense, this kind of woman is using you as a "spare tire". There is no pure friendship between men and women. No matter how good the relationship is between the opposite sex, there must be a clear dividing line.
To put it bluntly, women just don’t want to lose you as their always-available spare tire. Don't underestimate women's vanity. They often regard the number and quality of suitors as a way to show off between sisters. There is no difference between you and other spare fish in her fish pond.
2. I don’t want to lose you as a long-term meal ticket
A woman who plays with feelings will not only not treat men If you give sincerely, you will focus on the savings in a man's pocket.
If a woman refuses your confession many times but is willing to continue to have an ambiguous relationship with you and get entangled, it is largely due to your financial conditions.
Men always think that as long as they are willing to spend money and give bags, cosmetics, and clothes, women will be moved. Being willing to spend money is a direct expression of their love. As everyone knows, this mentality is taken advantage of by some women.
When you failed to confess your love, were disheartened, and decided to leave, a woman came to you on her own initiative, telling you a long and hypocritical story to keep you. Faced with the woman's tears, you are deeply moved and think that you have an important seat in her heart. In fact, when she does this, she doesn't want to leave you. She is just greedy for the money in your pocket.
3. I still have a good impression of you
Of course, there are also some women who are cautious about their feelings. Rejecting a man's confession is firstly due to a lack of self-confidence in the heart and doubting the man's sincerity towards him. Secondly, he is unsure of the affection in his heart. In the process of getting along, he has a slight liking for the man, but it has not yet reached the point where he must be a man.
Faced with this type of woman, it is necessary to adopt targeted strategies. Persevere in pursuit, express your sincerity, dispel the doubts in the woman's mind, and give her moreWith some thinking time, the chances of breaking through are quite high.
The above three points are the true purpose of women who refuse men’s confession but take the initiative to entangle them. In fact, women who truly love you will not spend your money carelessly. Instead, they will consider you at all times. They will not keep more "spare tires" out of vanity. On the contrary, women who don't love you will plot everything. you.
If you are unfortunate enough to meet a woman with the first two purposes above, no matter how much you like her or are reluctant to let go, you must stop your losses in time and learn to let go. When faced with a woman who is not worthy of your sincerity, Nothing to miss. As for the last one, you can try to win it.