Many boys think that a relationship cannot be confirmed without confession. However, the fact is that confession is not required to establish a relationship. So how to confirm a relationship without confession?
1. Language upgrade
Since you have mentioned the level of confession, it means that you and the girl We have had a good conversation and both parties feel good, so why not try to upgrade the relationship verbally? For example:
Girl: You are actually younger than me.
Me: No matter what age we are now, as long as two people get along well together, age is not a problem at all.
Female: That’s not necessarily the case. If you are immature, then you are not a suitable candidate for me. (The girl said that her ideal partner should be more mature)
Me: Maturity is not directly proportional to age. If you go on a trip, you just have to obey my instructions.
Female: Why should I obey you?
Male: If you are so disobedient, you will get a spanking. Why don't you come over and be punished? (The formation of an ambiguous relationship)
Female: Come on, come and hit me, I’ll wait for you.
Male: I can’t bear to really hit the baby. Hitting you will hurt my heart. (The verbal upgrade is successful, and you can call her by your baby's nickname in the future)
Don't think that these words have no substantial progress and cannot mean anything at all. In fact, the relationship with the girl slowly developed from these flirtations. And not everyone can call a baby. If a girl doesn’t object strongly, it means that she actually enjoys you calling her that. Through verbal upgrading, girls can gradually acquiesce in your relationship even if they don't express their feelings.
2. Physical upgrading
Of course, no matter how smoothly you upgrade your words, you just rely on your words. , of course there will be no substantial progress. Then it’s time to proceed to the next stage, limb upgrades. Limb upgrades are generally done through appointments. Of course, it doesn’t mean that you start tampering when you first meet. How to perform physical upgrade depends on your actual situation. For example:
A. You and the girl go to the mall together and walk to the gate of the mall. When you are in the mall, if you take the initiative to help the girl open the shopping mall door, you will not only appear to be very gentlemanly, but you will also take the opportunity to accidentally touch the girl's hand.
B. When you are shopping and crossing the street, if the road conditions are complicated, free your hands to protect the girl from being hit by the crowd. If appropriate, you can hold her hand and walk forward.
The above two methods of physical upgrading are completed in a very natural situation. Although holding hands will not make girls feel awkward, and after the first time, subsequent physical contact will be easier. Much more.
And after the verbal upgrade and physical upgrade, you call girls baby every day, and occasionally hold hands during dates. Who do you think girls think of you? Do most friends have this treatment? NONONO, this situation is just like There is no need to confess your feelings to establish your relationship.
