After confessing his love to a girl, he was rejected on the spot, thinking that he would be blacklisted and never have any contact with her from now on. But later it was discovered that both parties could still chat normally. What did the girl think in this situation?
1. Spare tire
If a girl rejects you and continues to chat with you, it is very likely that she You are the spare tire. If she doesn't agree to confess, it means she doesn't like you, but there's no one more suitable around her, so she might as well get along with you first. What if one day you meet the right one? What if one day you become better?
In fact, it is very simple to know whether you are a spare tire, because this kind of girl must have more than one spare tire. For example, she often mentions in front of you that many of her friends of the opposite sex, good brothers, and male best friends may be part of the spare tire. As long as we observe carefully, we can find out. It’s normal to have friends of the opposite sex, but having too many friends can seem malicious.
2. Not sure whether you are serious or not
Sometimes the ambiguous partner confesses to you, and girls first The first thing that comes to mind is not to say yes, but to consider whether you are serious about it. Maybe a girl likes you, but is not sure whether your confession was a whim or a joke, so she rejected you directly out of self-protection.
If you ignore her, she will be sure you are not serious. When you meet a girl like this, you must be patient. Because she will show favor to you in turn and give you a lot of hints.
3. I simply like to chat with you
If a girl is really not interested in you, when you confess her love Will definitely refuse. But in the subsequent chats, there will definitely be fewer ambiguous factors. For example, I used to send emoticons of kisses and hugs, but I won’t do it now; I used to act coquettishly with you in the middle of the night, but I won’t do it now.
The difference between the third type and the first type is that one treats you as an equal as a friend, and the other treats you as an enemy. When we face girls, we should think rationally.
After your confession is rejected, since the girl is willing to chat with you, treat her as an ordinary friend. Don't be as devoted to her as you used to be. People who don't like you won't like you just because you're good to her. And people who like you will not alienate you because of your coldness.
If you are rejected, don’t do anything to impress yourself, and don’t comfort yourself that she has a chance to chat with you. You should accept this failure honestly and then make yourself better.
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