Confession is to express your love to a girl. If the two of you are in love, then the two parties will naturally be together. However, if a girl doesn’t like you yet, or only has a little liking for you, your confession may be rejected. Then Should we continue to pursue this situation?
Whether or not we should continue to pursue after our confession has been rejected generally depends on the actual situation, for example:
1. Direct confession is rejected
Some friends have just met a girl, and the girl doesn’t know you well enough, so she directly chooses to confess. In this case, women will basically reject him. Because women confirm whether they like a man, you have enough samples to feel a man. Men can already confirm whether they are attracted to a woman by simply understanding her appearance and appearance.
Therefore, many men take it for granted that women, like themselves, decide whether they like someone very quickly. So, I chose to confess my love to the woman directly. At this time, the woman has not yet confirmed whether she likes you. You desperately want an answer, and the woman only rejects you.
Analysis: The girl doesn’t know you well enough, so she rejects you due to your eager confession. In this case, it is still worth trying if there is a chance. However, you need to change your pursuit strategy. You need to show more samples about yourself, your life, outlook on life, work, hobbies, etc. Girls will know whether they like you only through your sample.
Conclusion: Continue to pursue
2. We have known each other for a long time and confessed but were rejected
If You have known a girl for a long time and you have tried to be friendly with her many times. The other person has already experienced enough samples about you, and the final result is that they "don't like you." In this case, it is not recommended to continue chasing.
Analysis: Knowing each other for a long enough time means that you have enough opportunities to show your own samples. However, the result you showed is that girls don’t like you and don’t call you. It is very difficult to change a woman's "feeling" for you! Therefore, it is recommended to give up! If the other person is friends with you and you no longer "entangle", you may be able to retain the friendship and continue to pursue it, which may make your friends Nothing to do.
Conclusion: Give up the pursuit
3. Confession to "the right girl" was rejected
If you decide that she is your rightful daughter, no one can replace her (at least that’s what you think at the moment)! Then keep pursuing her. When facing someone you really like, being friends can only be A very "hypocritical" friend.
Analysis: For "the right girl", you must not give up! However, forTo prevent her from getting rejected again, you need to change your tactics in pursuing her.
First, stop expressing "obvious" interest. As long as you show interest in her, she will find reasons to reject you. If you don't express interest, the other party won't have much psychological burden.
Secondly, what you want to change is her emotional circuit, not her logic. Value creates attraction, and attraction causes changes in emotional circuits. What you need to do is to show more value and provide more value. Her emotional circuit has changed, she has feelings for you, and she will naturally accept you.
Summary: Continue to pursue
