When we have a crush on someone, it is actually very painful. On the one hand, we can’t help but want to confess, but on the other hand, we are worried that if we are rejected after confessing, it may not even become a secret love. I can't accept the consequences of my confession being rejected, but I can't help but want to tell the other person my feelings.
Should you confess your crush to someone?
1. Don’t rush to confess your love rashly
There is another word for confession, which is called confession to death. When we have a crush on someone, we must not confess it. The fundamental reason is that the love between both parties is misplaced. You are so in love with her that you have fantasized about your 20 years of marriage, but she has no feelings for you at all. You are just a mosaic to her.
Due to the difference in thinking between men and women, it often happens that women attract men in one second through their appearance, while men need to slowly become familiar with and warm up to attract women. Your side is full of passion, but her side is as dull as water, and she will die as soon as she expresses her love.
Therefore, before a girl likes you, if you rush to her, it will put a lot of pressure on her. It's okay if you don't say it, but if you say it, you are forcing the girl to make a choice. Since she doesn't like you, she can only reject you. And people have the inertia of rejection. As long as she rejects you for the first time, she will do it a second time. The more she rejects you, the more she will feel like she doesn’t like you, and she will eventually fall into an endless loop.
2. Wait until a girl likes you before confessing her love
When you have a crush on someone, do you confess it to her? , the key point is what kind of relationship you have. If you confess your love directly to a stranger, what is the probability that it will succeed? If you confess your love to a friend but no one you are romantically involved with, what are the chances of it succeeding? Or if you confess your love to a very ambiguous person, what is the probability that it will succeed? Or if you confess your love to someone you have already held hands with or even hugged, what is the probability that it will work?
So when we face someone we have a crush on, the first thing we do is to hide our love, at least so that the other person can’t guess, and then slowly test the other person’s feelings for you through chatting Under the premise of making sure that the other party is interested in you, you can induce the other party to get straight to the point. In this way, the love of both parties will be synchronized and it will be a true two-way relationship.
Finally, back to the question at the beginning, do you want to confess your crush on someone? Put yourself in their shoes, if you were the other person, what would you want yourself to do? You must be patient, go with the flow, be positive and enthusiastic, and wait until she starts to accept you before confessing, then the success rate will be much higher. This is the simplest truth.
