Many people think that once you confess your love successfully, you can naturally develop a relationship with a girl. In fact, before you confess your love, you are not in a relationship yet. In fact, the other party will not have much expectations for you no matter what you say or do at this time. But things are different after a successful confession. Your chatting and dating have to transition into a relationship of lovers, and many people may not be able to make the transition. Now let’s talk about what to do if you can’t chat after you just confessed your love successfully? What is the natural thing to talk to a girl about after you have successfully confessed your love?
1. Talk about the past
In fact, if the confession is successful, it means that the girl has a crush on you. Maybe you feel that you don’t know how to chat or what to talk to the girl for the time being. , these are nothing. The key to two people being together is whether they have a good impression. Common topics can be cultivated slowly, because you have not been together for a long time. Generally, in many cases like this, the common topics are recollections of what happened in the past, and then after a long relationship, the topic It will start around life and work. The main thing now is whether she will listen carefully to you. If she can listen, it doesn't matter even if she talks more about you, otherwise your future will be boring.
Second, contact more and chat more
In fact, after the successful confession, you will no longer chat, and you will not be with the other party. The topic means that you have not yet intervened in her daily life. At this time, you need to contact her more and chat more. It is best to keep calling her at a certain frequency. You can ask her about her well-being, or you can talk about your current situation or difficult things intentionally or unintentionally, or you can pretend to be uncomfortable to see if the other party cares. In short, first let the other person feel that life is incomplete without you, let her get used to your relationship as a couple, and then your relationship will be natural.
3. Talk about hobbies
Before successfully confessing your love, you must also know something about the girl. Know what she likes and doesn't like, and know girls' interests and hobbies. So when you have successfully confessed your love and don’t know what to talk about, you might as well talk to the girl about things you are interested in each other, such as the movies she likes, the music she likes, her daily life, and the funny jokes you see. Share with her, etc. These are all things you can talk about, and you can also get to know her more during the chat.
4. Talk about your current life
Since you have successfully confessed your love and are with girls, Then you can talk about many topics in your current life. For example, if you see something delicious, you can talk about it. If you see something interesting, you can talk about it. Anyway, keep talking. If you want to know more about your girlfriend, bring the topic into the chat. middle. If you really have no topic, read some brain teasers and say a few between the topics to make girls laugh. OtherIn addition, if a girl likes you, she will definitely want to chat with you, and she will also take the initiative to find topics, but you must be careful not to be the topic terminator.
It is normal to not know what to talk about after a successful confession. The key is whether you will actively look for topics and whether you can adapt to it. Your identity and relationship have changed, otherwise it will be useless for you to be anxious.
