In real life, two people, a man and a woman, clearly have a crush on each other but do not confess it. They both like each other silently, and have done many small acts of secret love. They have also noticed each other's affection, but because they dare not rush rashly, Confess your love and drift away. Why do we obviously have a crush on each other but dare not confess it? Let me share with you the reason why two people have a crush on each other but don’t confess it?
1. Inferior self-esteem and dare not touch
Some people say that having a crush on each other is a worse state than secret love and worse than unrequited love. Because love gives a person armor and weaknesses at the same time, especially crushing on each other.
The good thing about having a crush on each other is that it’s not about one person’s liking, but about liking each other, but it’s also bad because you need to consider more. When someone doesn't care about you, you can like the other person "unscrupulously" and vent "unscrupulously". But when you also know that the other person likes you, you should not only release your bad emotions, but also think about the other person and yourself. How should we prevent the other party from worrying too much about ourselves. Because it is very possible that one person is in a bad mood, causing both people to be depressed.
The bad thing about having a crush on each other is that you will think more about it, which is similar to a partial crush. Sometimes you will be very sure that the other person likes you, but sometimes you will laugh at it as your own guess. You can neither confront it nor convince yourself of it. The bad thing about it is that it makes you wander between "heaven" and "hell". Sometimes you will taste the sweetness, and sometimes you will also feel jealous: why can others come into contact with the person you love so much and the person you dare not touch so easily. But you can only be jealous alone, because the other person does not belong to you, so what right do you have to be jealous? This feeling is terrible. Perhaps, such people are either because they are too inferior and dare not touch them, or because they do not love enough, or because they cannot be together at that time.
2. Not liking each other enough
The biggest possibility of having a crush on each other but not confessing it is: not liking each other that much, not liking each other enough that you can’t monopolize each other, not liking each other enough to be together. Together we can overcome all difficulties. Both parties are hesitating about your relationship. When they are hesitating, they will not give up other love candidates. Once they meet a better person, they will immediately invest in love with the other person.
If you plan to be together, there must be one person who makes up his mind that "it must be her, and I won't consider anyone else at all" and take the initiative to pierce this layer of paper and give yourself and the other person the confidence to go on together. .
When two people have a crush on each other but do not confess it, everyone guesses each other's little thoughts, and they can advance or retreat. , such a state makes people not want to break it. And once it is confessed, it means that there must be a result between two people, and the result is likeHey, no one is willing to bear that bad thing.
