Sometimes when you like a girl to a certain extent, you want to confess to her. It’s okay if the confession succeeds, but what if the confession fails? After your confession is rejected, can you take a step back and continue to be friends with girls? Then look for a chance to see if you can be with a girl? Let’s analyze whether you can still be friends with a girl if you confess your love to a girl and get rejected? All I can say is that if you really love her, you may not be friends.
1. If you really love her, you can’t be your lover, you can only be a passerby
When a boy really likes a girl, he will actually have a strong possessive desire and hope that he can be by her side. People, so if you really love her, you can't be your lover, you can only be a passerby. Because if you express your love to a girl and are rejected, you will actually feel very painful and uncomfortable. Maybe you pretend that nothing is wrong and ask to be friends. No matter whether a girl agrees to be friends with you or not, you still can't let go. Especially after you really become friends, even if you can chat and see the girl every day, it will be a kind of torture to yourself, because she is by your side but you can't make her fall in love with you.
2. Two people can be friends without giving sincerity
If you just want to give it to a girl on a whim Confess, and you did, but in fact you don't like this girl that much at all. In this case, you can still be friends even if you are rejected by the girl. Because you don’t actually have much feelings for girls in your heart, and the same goes for girls, then you won’t care too much about each other when you are in contact with each other, and you can forget all the embarrassing things that happened after your previous confession was rejected. And if you really liked each other, you wouldn't be able to be so free and easy, so calm.
3. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have true love
If you really like a girl, if you look at her every day, But not being able to have the other person is a kind of suffering; so when faced with a girl you really love, after being rejected by her, in order not to feel sad or painful, you will actually subconsciously stay away from the other person's world, which is a bit similar to escape. Being friends in this situation is actually just a step up for each other. In fact, you both know that you can't be friends. But if you have never really loved this girl, then her rejection will not cause any substantial harm to you, so it doesn't matter whether you are friends or not.
Four. Being friends is a way to step down
If you confess your love to a girl, the girl Saying that she only treats you as a friend is actually a step up for you. In short, it means rejecting you. Being a friend is also a step up for you. She doesn’t mean that she really wants to be friends with you, she just wants to Don't make your relationship so embarrassing. At this time, you just need to go down the steps. As for the previousWhether there will be a chance in the future and whether we can be friends are all matters for the future.
