A chef’s day’s work is to stay in the kitchen and prepare various dishes for guests. Most of his working time is spent in a closed kitchen. Occasionally, he only takes a break to check his mobile phone or go outside to smoke a cigarette. After getting off work and being tired all day long, what I want to do most when I return to the dormitory is to take a shower, lie on the bed and sleep. Almost all the people I come into contact with on a daily basis are colleagues in the kitchen and employees in the restaurant.
Moreover, 90% of people working in the kitchen are men, unlike the education, medical, and insurance industries where there are so many women. The few female chefs basically work in the cold room, bakery room, and lobby bar. The hot rooms are basically filled with elderly helpers! Young female chefs are often the ones everyone takes care of in the kitchen, and many chefs even when they are at work The place where you fall in love is also with the waitress at the front.
But is this the reason why it is difficult for chefs to find girlfriends?
The most important thing about love is to control it yourself. Fellow chefs, you may wish to make reasonable use of your free time to improve your external image and inner self-cultivation. Then, you can try the following ways.
1. You can participate in more social networking activities. Some cities will hold some large-scale blind date conferences. This also allows us to recognize many young people of marriageable age.
2. Don’t miss some activities in the same city, such as reading clubs, volunteer activities, etc. If you are still a young and artistic person, participating in more activities will give you many opportunities to find a girlfriend.
3. We can participate in more activities in outdoor clubs and tour groups. When joining a tour group, we can also expand our circle of friends and get to know people of different ages and different fields. If we meet a good girl, we can go together Experiencing travel will also heat up the relationship between the two parties. While traveling, there are some small things that can help us see a person clearly.
4. You can participate in more cultural activities, such as museum events, concerts, etc. Usually the friends I make in these places have a high level of education and artistic pursuits. I guess the temperament isn't too bad either.
5. Bars are also a good place to meet new friends. You can choose some bars where the music is not too loud or some bars are clear, and then open up your confidence and talk to others. Although you may not necessarily meet someone you really like here, it is a good opportunity to practice your communication skills with others and get to know others.
