It is difficult for lovers with different views to get together. Even if they are together, they will torture each other! Apart from loving each other, lovers with different views only have differences.
People with different views are like a blue bird and a flying fish. Although they love each other deeply, the fish is still a fish in the water, and the blue bird is always a bird in the sky. They cannot survive without their respective fields. Therefore, the incompatibility of the three views often indicates that love cannot become a reality.
Which three views do not match?
1. Outlook on life
View Of Life is the general and fundamental view of the purpose and meaning of life, the path of life, and the way of life that people form in practice.
of ideas and plans.
If lovers have different outlooks on life, it will be difficult to maintain a relationship. One plans to go home and raise pigs, while the other prepares to take the postgraduate entrance examination. It is difficult for lovers with different outlooks on life to get along for a long time.
2. Values
Values ??(View Of Value) are cognitions, understandings, judgments or decisions based on people’s certain thinking and senses, that is, how people identify things. , a kind of thinking or orientation of distinguishing right from wrong.
Different levels and different ideas. You may buy a piece of soap because you need to wash clothes. A gay person may buy a piece of soap because he wants to be a man or a man. Hospital soap is used for washing hands. Disinfection and sterilization).
Differences in values ??will cause lovers to have different ideas when doing the same behavior - you should enjoy yourself in time, she should be diligent and thrifty/you should consume according to your needs, and she should consume according to her feelings...
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3. World Views
World Views (World Views) refers to what position you are in and what kind of information you use. To look at and analyze things with perspective, it is people’s judgment and reaction to things.
"Raise sheep, marry a wife and have a baby; raise a sheep and marry a wife after giving birth to a baby" - this is the world view of the shepherds. It is strange to people from other classes, but it is really strange to the shepherd group. It's so normal.
Insufficient worldview will lead to lovers having no common topics and having thoughts like this - What on earth is he thinking? What is he talking about?
Three Views of Lovers What are the symptoms of incompatibility
1. Appearance determines the possibility of being together, personality determines that they are not suitable to be together, and material factors determine that they cannot be stable.Determined to be together, lack of trust determines that we cannot be together for a long time!
2. For lovers with different views, the original love or admiration for each other will gradually fade with communication and daily interactions. Decrease until it becomes a burden.
3. I said the sea is beautiful, but you said many people have drowned.
4. Your world is like that, my world is like this.
5. The spirit of the other party cannot be communicated with each other, or it is not on the same level.
