I find that many friends like to struggle with the issue of whether they like me or not. In fact, there is nothing to struggle with. After all, whether I like me or not is all in the details, so why bother yourself? Just look at the details. . Today, the editor will bring you a guide on how to judge whether the other person likes you. Let’s take a look.
What behaviors mean that he is interested in you?
Like means like, and interest means interest. Language may conceal it, but some casual details will still reveal his/her attitude towards you.
1. Get involved in the topic
It doesn’t matter how much you talk to him or her, but how “deep” you talk is important. If he or she is not interested in you, he or she will show off when you chat. They are defensive and unwilling to actively engage in your topic. If you reveal a relatively private and embarrassing thing, and they also actively reveal their life, this can be regarded as an indicator of interest, because you can only face the topic that interests you. Only people will want to reveal more private information.
2. Imitate your words and actions
When someone has a good impression of you, your image will be gilded in their heart. For such an "excellent" you, He will imitate and learn consciously or unconsciously. He will imitate your words when chatting, and imitate your movements and body when meeting. These are all manifestations of his psychological distance from you.
3. Playing and teasing
When you were a child, when you were interested in someone, you would always Find faults with him, poke him, deliberately annoy him, and let him chase you and beat you. Even after they reach adulthood, men and women will always be unable to help teasing the person they care about.
For example, make fun of some of his innocuous flaws, and deliberately provoke him in small things. For him, this kind of "teasing" is actually a way of testing his attitude. If you can Understand what he means and continue to play along with his laughter, and the relationship between the two people will quickly enter the state.
If you interpret this kind of teasing as "looking down on me" or "deliberately teasing me to play", and thus respond indifferently, then he will think that you "do not understand the style" and stop "making fun of" you. Of course, the purpose of this kind of "teasing" is to get her closer to you.
4. The best way to distinguish true and false signals is to "confirm tacit understanding"
For example, let him or her play a game with you to see if the other person is willing to invest in tacit understanding and whether he is really willing. Get more involved in the interaction between the two of you. If he is willing to play boring games with you, it means that he has a crush on you.
The above is what the editor brings to you today how to judge whether the other person likes you.After reading this, everyone must be very clear about it, so now look back and see if the person who makes you worried has a good impression of you. If so, try to turn the good impression into like. Come on~!
