Maybe a girl has been chatting with you very ambiguously for a long time, and others are envious of you. Maybe only you know that after chatting for so long, the girl doesn’t even say a word about you. Her vague attitude makes you wonder if we are just friends, and your love does not get a corresponding response. This pain should only be understood by those who have experienced it. Below I will share with you the difference between a girl's playfulness and a serious one, and teach you how to tell whether a girl really likes you or is just playing with you, so as to avoid wasting time and energy.
The difference between girls playing and being serious
1. Sustenance method
For example You are about to go on a business trip, and your single kitten has no one to take care of it. You used to put it in a pet store for foster care, but you want to judge whether the girl is playing with you or having serious contact with you, then you can say to the girl: Hey, if you have the skills during this period, can you help me take care of the cat? I'm going to xxx for a week's business trip.
Most girls will not refuse a cute and well-behaved cat (except those who are allergic to cats), especially girls who like you are very happy to help you. But if a girl just wants to be friends with you and doesn't want to develop a serious relationship with you, then she will definitely find a way to reject you. Because she didn't want to cause trouble for herself, she refused with various excuses anyway.
Then if a girl actually wants to get further with you, she will ask you relevant questions, and even if she is allergic to cats, she will help you think of a solution. This is the difference. You may hear this and say, what should I do if I don’t have a cat? Brother, I am giving this example here, you can draw inferences!
2. Cup Effect Test
You must have a cat before you can ask a girl out, and respond with a cup You can also see the difference between a girl's playfulness and her seriousness by testing the degree of a girl's obedience to you. For example, when you are on a date with a girl, you deliberately put your cup very close to the girl's cup to see how the girl will react. If it is a girl who wants to play with you and keep her distance from you, she will quietly take her cup away and put it far away from your cup. Girls who want to seriously upgrade their relationship with you will actually be very happy when they see your reaction, so they will not move the cup, and they will even place the cup closer to you.
The difference between a girl’s fun and a serious one is shared here. If you just lack the invitation skills and don’t have a cat, you have been flirting with a girl for a long time, but you still can’t get a date. , then you definitely don’t want to stay at this stage of chatting. The most important thing is that you may end up chatting until you feel nothing, and it will be difficult to enter the next paragraph. If you are in this situation, you can also come and chat with me. I will share with you some invitation skills and help you attract girls easily.Make an appointment.
