Some boys don’t have girlfriends because they are too busy at work and don’t have time to look for them. Others have a lot of time and spend a lot of time looking for girlfriends, but they still can’t find one. Friends, what is the reason for this?
Why can’t I find a girlfriend even after spending a lot of time?
1. No financial foundation
Finding a girlfriend is not something that can only be found by spending time. If you have no financial foundation, no woman will be interested in you no matter how much time you spend.
Of course, the so-called economic foundation here does not mean that you must be the second generation of rich people or the second generation of officials, but that you must have the ability to make money on your own, such as doing a job you like and having a stable job. financial sources. Financial resources are the only sense of security for men walking in this world. Although money is not omnipotent, it is impossible to live without money. Especially in life and relationships, there are many places where money is needed. Therefore, the economic foundation is a man’s. The necessary condition is that a man’s family does not need to have money, but he must have the ability to make money.
2. Poor self-image
Men who have been single for a long time may feel that no one will notice if they dress too well, and they don’t have a girlfriend, so they can just wear whatever is convenient for them. No need to How to pay attention to image. However, just because you have this kind of thinking, over time, you will give other women the impression that you are an unscrupulous man.
Women actually care about a man’s appearance. If the appearance is not up to standard, or if the appearance is not up to standard, you will not be considered by girls.
3. Don’t know how to chase girls?
Chasing girls is also a big knowledge. In the right situation, you need to use the right method to push the relationship in the right direction.
On the contrary, if you use the wrong method, not only will it not further advance the relationship, it may even lead to a breakup. Therefore, if you don't know how to pursue girls, you won't be able to properly promote the relationship, and the final outcome is foreseeable.
At this time, I can only comfort myself by saying "I met the right person at the wrong time."
4. Too honest
Think about yourself, are you often said by friends around you that you are too honest? Very good, very kind to others, especially female friends? If this is true, then why does such a good person not have a girlfriend? Have you thought about the reason? No matter how many good person cards you have, it is useless, it just looks like you It's more like being a fool being taken advantage of.
I don’t mean to say that it’s bad to be honest, but sometimes you need to be flexible. It's right to be kind, but chasing girls may not work..
Women will think that if a man is too honest, he is dull. Although they do not like "bad men", they will be intoxicated by the feeling that "bad men" make her.
So sometimes you can’t be too honest, you have to learn to be flexible.
