The literal meaning of "The days are long" means "The days ahead are still very long, and there is plenty of time to meet and interact with each other, so don't be too impatient." So if the girl you like says "The days are long" to you, is that a polite rejection of you?< /p>
Under normal circumstances, when a girl says this, she is rejecting you. At least she has no feelings for you at the moment and doesn’t want to Reply immediately.
Or maybe she just wants to train you in the direction of being a backup, whet your appetite, and make you feel that there is hope that you can catch her. In order to maintain your relationship, she will say that the future is long!
p>Of course, this sentence also has the trap of rejecting you politely. Because it is difficult to reject you clearly, it can only be used to delay you. In this case, the girl is probably not interested in you anymore, so you need to make a specific analysis based on her context at the time!
So how to distinguish between these situations?
If you confess your love to a girl and she says that the future is long, she is probably rejecting you.
And if you have entered the ambiguous period and the girl says that the future is long, she may feel that the relationship is developing too fast and wants to slowly enhance the relationship. That means you still have hope of being together, but not now! I hope to use the time in the future to test you and observe you! At this time, what girls pay most attention to is your performance. If they think you are suitable, they will choose to fall in love with you.