Some people may feel that after a long relationship, it is easy to run out of things to say, because they are so familiar with each other that the other party knows many things without having to say them. But some people also feel that two people have nothing to talk about when they first fall in love. Because they are not familiar with each other when they first fall in love, they feel that they have nothing to talk about. Is this normal? How to change this situation?
1. Take the initiative
When two people are in a relationship and have nothing to say, one of them must take the initiative and find a way to change the situation. Because both parties feel that there is nothing to talk about, it will definitely be awkward, and they may not be familiar with each other. It is difficult to say a lot of jokes, but you can try to share your life with her, for example, what did you eat for lunch today? How does it taste? If it tastes good, take her to eat next time. Where have you been? Do you have any insights? You can also tell her a cold joke, blah blah, let's see if we can continue the conversation first, don't do it yet. It feels inappropriate to fight for it.
2. Slowly adjust to each other
Each couple has their own situation, and some may be more Cheerful and lively, some people are more introverted and slow to warm up, so over time some couples may find that they have a lot to talk about together at the beginning, and then gradually run out of topics to talk about; some two people have nothing to talk about when they first get together, but after contact The more we have, the more things we have experienced together, the more we have a tacit understanding and have something to talk about. So don’t rush to decide the life or death of a relationship just because two people are new to each other and have nothing to talk about.
It may also be that girls have never been in love before, and they may not know that many times, when it comes to falling in love, you need to persist. We have different life experiences, and neither of us is the kind of person who is good at it. People who chat with others may need to get used to each other and experience some things at the beginning.
3. Get in touch with more cultivation topics
If you two have known each other for a short time, you both have a good impression of each other. It is very common for the person you just met to have nothing to talk about. If you feel that there is nothing to talk about when two people get along, then the two of you try to do something in common, such as making a handicraft together, learning to cook a dish together, and going out together Read a good book, watch a movie together, go traveling together...exchange your own opinions and insights. I believe you will cultivate topics that belong to the two of you, and you will understand each other better in the process.
You are just two people who have just met each other and have nothing to say, not that you have no feelings for each other. The topic can be cultivated slowly, but if the relationship is gone, it will be irreparable. So, chat with her more when you have free time, share your life with her, and ask her some topics you are curious about; ask her out more on weekends, after all, no matter how much you talk,We also need to practice it in real life in order to increase our feelings for each other.