Come on, new hat, put it on, wear it straight, look, you are so energetic!
It is normal for a girlfriend to chat with the opposite sex, but it is extremely abnormal for a girlfriend to chat with the opposite sex every day. It would be even more abnormal if this person of the opposite sex is still a single of the right age! Either this person of the opposite sex is greedy for your girlfriend, or your girlfriend is keeping a spare tire.
The reasons why girlfriends chat with the opposite sex every day
1. Girls who have no spiritual world
When a girl’s brain is empty and she has no wisdom, life thinking and deep spiritual pursuit, she can easily be led astray by other people’s comments and has no real opinion, independent thinking and self-esteem of her own. consciousness.
You can only stimulate your ordinary life through other aspects to gain some psychological emptiness and sense of existence. For example, chatting with the opposite sex.
2. Lack of moral contract spirit
The melon field does not accept the shoes, and the plum does not hold the title. Since a girl chooses to be your girlfriend, she should naturally be obliged to do some basic things to avoid suspicion, such as maintaining an appropriate safe distance from other members of the opposite sex.
However, after your girlfriend established a relationship, she still regards flirting as a personal hobby and chats with other members of the opposite sex every day. In fact, she wants to enjoy the sweetness of love while also occupying the privilege of being single. I want all the benefits! In essence, she lacks the moral spirit of contract.
What should I do if my girlfriend chats with the opposite sex every day?
Don’t think that chatting every day is nothing. When a boy chats with a girl every day, he either wants to chase her or the girl can provide him with some value. You need to clearly distinguish what value your girlfriend provides to the boy. Do these boys have any intention of poaching?
1. Swap mobile phones and see what they were chatting about.
Don’t think this is private. If there are no ambiguous chat records, I will definitely let you see them.
2. Show affection in the circle of friends
If a person’s circle of friends cannot tell that she has a partner, it basically means that she does not intend to disclose the matter. If she does not disclose it, she will leave opportunities for others. .
3. Don’t revolve around her all the time, work hard to improve yourself
Love requires attraction. Although two people need to maintain a certain degree of loyalty when they become boyfriend and girlfriend, but when When a particularly good person appears, some people may be pried away. If a girl doesn't let you look at your phone and refuses to show affection, you are basically a spare tire.
It is a pain to have something that exceeds your ability. If youIf you have a girlfriend but cannot handle the relationship with your girlfriend well, then even if the relationship can be maintained, it will always be full of pain and unknowns. Putting yourself in a high-value position in love is what you need to do most, because good people never lack girlfriends.
