The early stage of love is the stage when two people understand each other and establish feelings. The stability and harmony at this stage are crucial for subsequent development. However, some couples will have a cold war in the early stages of their relationship. This behavior will not only destroy trust between each other, but also bring a series of harm to the relationship.
1. Destruction of communication
The cold war means that both parties stop communicating and no longer actively express their thoughts and feelings. Such behavior will lead to misunderstandings and speculations on both sides, further deepening the gap between them. Without effective communication, problems cannot be solved and the relationship cannot develop further.
2. Increase the psychological burden
The Cold War will make both sides feel anxious and uneasy. Everyone wants care and response from the other, but when one chooses to be cold, the other may feel ignored or abandoned. This psychological burden will gradually accumulate and eventually affect the individual's emotional and mental health.
3. Establish unhealthy patterns
Cold war in the early stages of a relationship can become an unhealthy pattern of behavior. If both parties always choose a cold war when faced with problems, this pattern may continue into subsequent stages of the relationship. Over the long term, this unhealthy pattern can undermine trust and stability, ultimately leading to the breakdown of the relationship.
4. Missing the opportunity to understand each other
The early stage of love is an important period for two people to understand each other and establish feelings. The Cold War will cause both sides to miss the opportunity to understand each other. When a person chooses a cold war, they tend to close themselves off and are unwilling to take the initiative to understand the other person's thoughts and needs. As a result, both parties cannot truly establish a deep emotional connection.
5. Formation of negative emotions
The Cold War will trigger negative emotions on both sides, such as anger, frustration, disappointment, etc. These negative emotions will gradually accumulate and affect the emotional communication between each other. Both parties will fall into negative emotions and find it difficult to get out of them, further deepening the gap between them.
A cold war in the early stages of a relationship is very dangerous for a relationship. It destroys communication, increases psychological burden, establishes unhealthy patterns, misses opportunities for mutual understanding, and creates negative emotions. Therefore, in the early stages of love, we should try to avoid the cold war, but solve problems through active communication and understanding, so as to lay a good foundation for the stable development of the love relationship.
