Seeing that the girl I had liked for a long time broke up, while I was relieved, I must have been excited in my heart and considered whether to pursue her. After all, there are so many suitors for excellent girls. What if it’s too late and the girl is chased away by someone else, or she gets back together with her ex-boyfriend again, so she pursues her quickly. However, there is another saying that the new love after a breakup does not last long, so it is recommended that boys should not rush to pursue her after the breakup, so as not to become her emotional substitute, and you will only be abandoned when she finds her true love. . Let’s talk about what happened.
1. Give her time to forget about the old relationship
No matter how much you like a girl who has just broken up, it is recommended that you pursue her after a while, and it will be better to give each other a window period. a little. Moreover, if a girl considers others just after breaking up with her ex, wouldn’t you think that this girl is a bit sentimental? Don't you think she has no respect for feelings at all? What if she can't let go of her ex and ends up looking for him again? And if a girl rejects your pursuit, you will definitely feel sad. Therefore, no matter whether a girl accepts you after a breakup or not, she will leave a thorn in your heart. Therefore, giving more time to girls after a breakup to forget about the old relationship will be very helpful for your future development.
2. Don’t get into a dilemma
If you chase a girl after she breaks up, your role at this time It will be awkward, and you will feel more like a life preserver or a villain taking advantage of the situation. You will also put the girl into a dilemma: accept you, her heart is still with her ex, which is unfair to you and forced on herself; refuse to accept you, sincerely, will rejection hurt you more? Let’s not talk about whether the other person is the right one. The time to express love is wrong! Moreover, this girl who didn’t even have the heart to come back at that time was not the right person for her ex!
3. Accompany her through the haze of lovelorn
Therefore, when a girl breaks up, she will support you to treat her appropriately. , keep a distance and pay attention to each other, but it is really not recommended to chase them. You can first accompany her through the haze of broken love, give her meticulous care, show your love for her from time to time, and be careful in your approach, otherwise it may be counterproductive. Because a lovelorn woman is more sensitive and fragile, if you pursue her directly, she may not be sincere to you because she agreed to be with you in order to forget her last relationship or to get revenge on her ex-boyfriend. So you have to play hard to get.
It’s not just talk about new lovers after a breakup. After all, starting a relationship is not a child’s play and requires both parties to take care of themselves. The most sincere heart. If one party cannot fully devote themselves to the relationship, then you will also feel the imbalance of emotional balance later, and eventually you will not be able to bear it..
