Since we can enter the ambiguous period, it proves that we both like each other, but some girls are too reserved. Although we have taken the initiative to confirm the relationship, the other party refuses to agree, leaving both parties trapped. The state of being an unfulfilled lover. So what should you do when a girl is ambiguous with you but refuses to confirm the relationship?
1. Demonstrate scarcity
Things are rare and valuable. People always yearn for things they can’t get. The more they can’t get, the more they want to get them. Therefore, when a girl is ambiguous with you but refuses to confirm the relationship, you can appropriately show your scarcity and make her feel that besides her, there are many outstanding girls who are thinking about you.
For example:
When the other party rejects your invitation, you can not make any reaction, but immediately reveal that you were with another female companion the next day. A photo with the restaurant she went to. Or when she takes the initiative to invite you to hang out, refuse her and tell her that you already have a date. When she shows that she is unhappy, you can add another layer of anger and tell her, "We are not a couple."
This display of scarcity can arouse girls’ jealousy and desire for challenge, making them “lose their minds” and want to conquer you. Then it’s not far away from establishing a relationship with you.
2. Punish by retreating
If a girl keeps having an affair with you, no matter what you do It implies that even if you use other girls to stimulate her, she still refuses to confirm the relationship. Then at this time, you can take appropriate punishment to her.
For example, when she sends you a message, you no longer reply to her immediately; when she asks you out, you no longer agree to the invitation; you do not respond to her ambiguous topics, etc.
In short, his attitude towards her became cold and his enthusiasm decreased. Leave her alone and let her reflect on herself by using this method of punishment.
If this girl really likes you, then this sense of crisis of "loss" will stimulate her to take the initiative to confirm your relationship.
On the other hand, if even so, he still does not take any action and does not continue to look for you, then his intention is It's doubtful that I don't really like you.
A relationship that remains ambiguous is dangerous. Because it all depends on what kind of person the other person is. If you meet the wrong person, the deeper your affection, the greater the hurt you will suffer.
Therefore, if the other party is still indifferent after you take the above measures, then you need to take the initiative to clarify the relationship with her, for example, ask him directly: "Our relationship can go further.Is there a possibility?", "What is the relationship between us now?", "I like you and hope that our relationship can get closer. I don't know what you think."
If the other party still avoids talking or is vague, it means that he is just flirting with you and does not really want to have long-term stability with you. In a love relationship, it is best to break off such a girl as early as possible and refuse to continue to be ambiguous with him
