How much do you know about the meaning of the ambiguous period? Why do people take ambiguity so seriously? In other words, the ambiguous period can easily affect emotions. The essence is: people always have something that they don’t get, don’t understand, and don’t belong to themselves. Fantasies beyond the scope, fantasies about how high-quality it is, fantasies about the happiness of getting it, and then want to take it as one's own.
What does it mean to desperately want to possess? It means that your emotions start to lose control, you start to be confused about your position, and it starts to affect yourself. status.
In fact, these thoughts are not very pleasant to talk about, but you can look at some cases where the ambiguity lasts only a few days, and the relationship cannot be determined. Most likely, they have not even met, and you feel that you are in love. It doesn't work anymore, but wake up...
You have to start to understand clearly now that being ambiguous does not mean that you have her now or that you are sure that you can have her in the future. The key word of the ambiguous period is "understanding".
So you know what the ambiguous period is for. I think in this relationship you should be able to maintain your overall physical and mental balance, and then live in harmony with the ambiguous period. Here are four key points, keep them in mind. !
1. The ambiguous period is a process of understanding each other, and its focus is on "understanding". Understand whether you really like the other person, determine your own feelings; understand the other person's mind and attitude; understand what kind of person the other person is; understand the initial state of love between the two of you, etc...</ p>
After understanding each other, they will form a judgment on whether to confirm the relationship.
2. Don’t take on any identity in advance to try to control the other person or be aggressive. You must know clearly that no matter how sweet you talk during the ambiguous period, Before the relationship is established, she does not belong to you.
Now there is just one person, and there is a good opportunity to get to know each other. Relax and show yourself in a comfortable state. Don’t assume it in advance, don’t fantasize in advance, and don’t make wild associations.
3. Don’t imagine how good she is just because of her few words. Don’t just listen, you have to understand for yourself. The ambiguous period is given to you so that you can test and select for yourself.
4. If the ambiguity period is long, you have to consider that the other person may not like you that much or there are actual hard problems between you, such as being in different places...
If you already know each other, You have the idea of ????confirming the relationship, but no matter how proactive and how you guide her, she still maintains an attitude of disagreement, non-rejection, and ambiguity. Then you can end the relationship.
