Blind date is a common way to make friends, but sometimes girls may not be willing to continue dating after a blind date. So, what will they do?
1. Refuse to meet again
If a girl is not interested in the blind date, she may directly refuse the proposal to meet again. In this case, she usually expresses her thoughts tactfully to avoid hurting the other person's feelings.
For example, she might say: "Thank you for the invitation, but I feel like we don't have much in common. "I don't think we are suitable to be lovers, I hope you can understand"
2. Avoiding contact
Another sign of girls not wanting to date is avoiding contact. . She may deliberately not respond to text messages, phone calls, or messages on social media to show that she is not interested in taking the relationship further.
This behavior may be because she feels that she has no common language with the other person or that her personality is inappropriate. She may think that by avoiding contact she can make her attitude clear to the other person without having to reject him outright.
3. Keeping a distance
Another sign of a girl’s reluctance to date after a blind date is to keep a distance. She may avoid being alone with the person and minimize the chances of meeting him.
This behavior may be because she feels that she has no common topics with the other person or feels that the other person is not suitable for her. She hopes to prevent further development of the relationship by keeping her distance.
4. Not actively contacting the other party
Girls may also choose not to actively contact the other party to show that they are not interested in further contact. She may wait for the other party to take the initiative to contact her, and if the other party does not express a desire to continue the relationship, then she will quietly end the blind date experience.
This behavior may be because she feels that she does not have many common interests with the other person or that her personality is inappropriate. She hopes to convey her attitude by not initiating contact.
5. Frank expression
Some girls may choose to directly and frankly tell the other party that they are unwilling to continue dating. They will find a suitable time to sincerely express their thoughts to each other.
For example, she might say: "I don't think we have much in common, so I don't want to continue dating." or "I don't think our personalities are a good match, and I hope you understand." .”
6. Looking for excuses
Some girls may look for excuses to end the relationship after the blind date. They may find some objective reasons, such as busy work, family affairs, etc., to explain their inability to continue developing the relationship.
This behavior may be because they do not want to reject the other party directly, but choose to end the relationship through excuses. This way they hope to avoid hurting each other's feelings.
After a blind date, girls who are unwilling to date may take the above stepskind of performance. Everyone handles it differently, but it's all out of consideration for themselves and the other person. No matter what, honesty and respect are the foundation of good relationships.