A woman’s heart is as sharp as the sky in May and June. It changes at any time and the situation is unpredictable. One moment she is gentle, lovely, and charming, and the next moment she is silent, with pear blossoms and rain. If straight men or honest people encounter such a situation, they will often encounter many problems that they think are "inexplicable" - girls chatting with them are hot and cold, and sometimes they don't even reply on WeChat. This kind of indifference The attitude is really a headache!
What is the reason why girls are hot and cold?
1. Girls are in Test you to see if your love for her is a whim or if you stick to it.
2. Girls are trying to trick you. Some girls also like to play tricks in love, trying to attract you by playing hard to get.
3. A girl is angry with you. Some straight men don’t even know they have offended a girl, and they are still wondering why the other person is hot and cold...
4. Girls and you Chatting is just out of boredom. It may be that she is lonely and unable to entertain herself occasionally, so she will chat with you.
5. Girls treat you as an emotional trash can, because girls know how you feel, so every time they feel down, they use you as a tree hole to talk about their feelings. After their mood improves, they will not Depend on you.
6. Girls are looking for horses, and they regard you as an enemy. They will leave you when they meet someone better, and they will rely on you if they don’t meet someone better.
7. Girls use you as a backup, and you are just their tool or emotional plaything.
Does being hot and cold mean that a girl doesn’t like her?
(1) Single syndrome
Girls who have been single for a long time have become accustomed to being single and living alone. When two people are together, there will be a period of discomfort and unaccustomedness. Only after this period can you find the feeling of love.
(2) Too introverted
Introverted girls may not be very good at getting along with boys, and they are too embarrassed to get too close to boys. They may be hot and cold. It's not that I don't like him, but I don't know how to get close to boys and don't know how to express love.
(3) Inner hesitation
Perhaps it is personality, perhaps it is the hurt of love, or it may be emotional instability...it makes girls hesitate in their hearts. This shows that The relationship between you and the girl is not yet in place, and you need more time to understand and care for each other.
How to chase after a girl who ignores you
1. Boys should have their own plans and careers , it is difficult for boys without plans and careers to get girls to like them, while boys with plans are more likely to get girls.favor.
Second, we should not expose too much of our sense of need. If we blindly expose our sense of need, it is easy for girls to feel that you are too purposeful, and girls will compare themselves to boys who are too purposeful. Exclusion.
3. It is more important to chat with girls moderately. Don’t stalk them, which can easily make girls feel disgusted. Therefore, in the early stage, you must grasp the rhythm of your relationship with girls and don’t rush it.
