I heard that the colder a boy is, the easier it is for him to become a hero in the hearts of girls. Why do you say this? Because I found that boys who look cool in appearance and have a cold personality are more likely to be loved by girls. On the contrary, most of the enthusiastic babies who ask for help all day long will be ignored by girls. It can be seen from this that when chasing a girl, being appropriately aloof can also make you different from her.
Do girls like aloof boys?
Today I will share with you that the more boys know how to enhance their aloofness, the more girls will be attracted to you. I can't put it down and can't get rid of it.
1. Don’t reply instantly every time
Sometimes keep a proper distance from girls. How many boys are so surprised and excited when they see girls, no matter how busy they are? Immediately reply in seconds. In fact, girls encounter this action every day. Apart from proving that you are very free, it is of no use at all and will not lower the value of your interaction.
In fact, value interaction is a very valuable process. Only by keeping a certain distance appropriately can girls see you. A value, you can let go appropriately after getting her recognition. If the boy behaves more coldly, she will have a sense of crisis, especially if she takes the initiative to chat with you, wait a few minutes before replying, or create a sense of crisis. The feeling that you are very popular with the opposite sex is more likely to cause girls to have random thoughts. She will also be unwilling to miss you, and unknowingly, you take the initiative and she takes the initiative.
Many boys cannot pursue the girl they like because they fail to control their desires and reveal their strong sense of need from the beginning. Girls will be scared away by you.
2. Know how to refuse
We cannot respond to girls’ requests and blindly satisfy them, which will only spoil a girl. No matter how reasonable she is at the beginning, over time, she will also Your efforts will be taken for granted.
There is a colleague like this around me. At first, the girl was quite reserved. Later, I asked my colleague to help me with something, and my colleague readily agreed. With the second Once there was a second time, and later it developed into a situation where girls would go to my colleagues for anything.
From the encouragement at the beginning to always digging into your pocket later, when the girl said she really wanted to drink milk tea, he ran away immediately Went to buy it. The girl said she wanted this set of skin care products. Without saying a word, he used his credit card to swipe her wallet. It was getting worse and worse, and their relationship didn't make any progress at all. The most annoying thing is that when my colleague went to confess his love, the girl asked, "You are a good person, but I still have no feelings for you," so she sent my colleague away.
So, when chasing girls, don’tDon't dare to refuse because you like her. Say no bravely and act aloof. Only then will girls feel that you are more masculine. You must know that being nice to her also requires a bottom line and dedication. That's what fools do.
So now you should know why it is easier for those cold-blooded boys to chase the girls they like, right? You can do the above two things too.
