Although there are many scumbag girls and green tea bitches nowadays, we have to say that there are still many simple and good girls in our lives. However, although some girls are naive and have little experience in love, they are actually very defensive, and it is not that easy to impress her. So if you like a girl who is innocent but defensive, how should you pursue her?
1. Understand the reasons for her defensiveness
If you want to pursue a simple but defensive girl, you must first understand the reasons for her defensiveness.
If she has been emotionally injured and is defensive about men, then you will have to work harder. You have to behave differently from her ex-boyfriend, otherwise it will be difficult. If her ex-boyfriend was a warm man but hurt her, then you have to behave differently, mature and steady or like a sunny little wolfdog. Don't be like her boyfriend...
If she is defensive about boys because she feels insecure, so she is very defensive about the outside world, then it will be a little easier. You need to act mature, steady and reliable, and ask for help. Take the initiative to pick her up and accompany her when she travels on errands. If you see any problems she can't solve, take the initiative. Don't ask her if she needs anything. Sometimes she won't take the initiative to tell you. .
Of course, you have to be sure that the girl is ignoring your advances because she is innocent but defensive. Maybe she just doesn’t like you, but she can’t save face and rejects you directly, so she deliberately finds reasons not to follow you. You talk, I don’t want to see you and so on. Otherwise everything you do may be in vain.
2. Give her time to accept you
A simple but defensive girl is actually very She looks forward to relationships, but she is very afraid of being let down, so she is very cautious about relationships, and she is also very neurotic when they are together. This requires the boy pursuing her to tolerate her suspicions, her bad temper, and give her time to slowly accept you. In fact, a simple but defensive girl just wants to love her regardless of other people's opinions and let her know the feeling of peace of mind, which is sincerity. Maybe many boys died on the way to being tested... I can only say that chasing this kind of girl Patience is really important. If you really like someone, just insist on being nice to them. Even the most defensive girl can feel it.
3. Give her a sense of security
What simple but defensive girls lack most is actually a sense of security. , they are not wary of everyone, but whether you are worth trusting and relying on. You can give her more of a sense of security and relax her. You can slowly talk to her and have a heart-to-heart conversation with her. You can make her feel that she has gained something and the conversation is meaningful. You can make her feel comfortable and not disgusted. Don't rush to ask for help. Success, press her hard, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
I like a simple but defensive personThere is nothing wrong with girls. If you like her, just find the right way to pursue her. As long as your persistence is seen by her, she will slowly open up to you. And as long as she accepts you, you will find that she will become more dependent on you than anyone else. This is the change you make in her.
