I wonder if any of you have had such an experience, chasing a girl for a month but not being able to date her? If you have also experienced it, you will probably be as helpless as the classmate who asked for help this time. This classmate is encountering this problem now and wants to know why and if there is any way to successfully ask a girl out.
In fact, in my opinion, the reason why you can’t date girls is very simple, that is, you are not attractive enough to girls. , did not make her have the desire to see you, so if you want to change this situation, you must start from yourself. Today I will share some techniques commonly used by experts to pick up girls, let’s see where you fall short.
1. Learn to show off your own strengths
Many boys often like to pursue girls by kneeling and licking them. They try their best to please girls, but in the end they are still given the good guy card. Please remember this deeply. Remember: touching is not love!
So you should let girls see your advantages, leave a good impression on girls, and let girls slowly be attracted to you.
2. Understand girls
Before flirting with girls, you should learn to do your homework, such as what type of girl is she is, what are her hobbies and interests, what she usually likes to eat, etc. After you fully understand her, you can chat about her favorite topics, take her to do some things she likes, etc., and the relationship between the two will gradually become closer.
3. Emotional arousal
Most boys like to follow each other when flirting with girls. Without your own framework, it will look very boring, and girls will naturally not take you to heart.
Boys with high emotional intelligence often like to confront girls, making the process more interesting and causing the other party to have mood swings. When a girl has mood swings and is willing to get along with you, that means It seems that she is gradually attracted to you.
Okay, that’s it for today’s small class. If you have any questions, you can chat with me privately or add my WeChat account for consultation. I am very happy to help you solve your problems. (v:XYXZ9888)
