I remember someone said that if a person is not crazy at the age of 20, he has no future, and if he is crazy at the age of 30, he has no future. Many guys are very stressed in their 20s, so being single might be a relatively good choice, right? But if you are still single at the age of 30, it will definitely be a bit difficult to get out of singlehood. Is it impossible to find a man who is still single at the age of 30? How should a 30-year-old single man get out of singlehood?
Is it impossible to find men who are still single at the age of 30?
1. There is no chance to meet women
Some men are stuck at the age of 30, and they just have a career. In the early stage of struggle, when you have a certain career foundation, you may want to get to know women at this time, but then you find that there seem to be very few single women around you, and you don’t seem to know them well. In a situation like this, you can come and talk to me. Let’s not talk about whether your conditions are good or not. After all, if you are 30 years old, you must have some experience, right? You may have a request from the bottom of your heart. A little taller, or you know better what kind of person you want.
2. Lost confidence in love
Boys in their 20s are in great shape, even if they endure After staying up all night, he was still alive and kicking the next day. But men in their 30s can no longer do this. They feel more physically exhausted. If your conditions are not good enough, you may have low self-esteem, which will greatly reduce your emotional confidence. And when a man is still single at the age of 30, the pressure will actually be greater. What else could it be? When the wallet is bulging, people become more realistic. There is no right or wrong in this situation, it is just that you may lose confidence in love, and you have the conditions to leave the single, but you no longer have the heart to leave the single.
3. Don’t want to be controlled
Another possibility for a 30-year-old man who is still single is that he feels that he has never had fun, does not want to be controlled, and enjoys the feeling of freedom. After all, there is a saying that if you are single, you can have a 20-year-old girl, but if you are not single, you can have more than one 20-year-old girl, right? Well, but I still advise everyone, even if you pick someone else, they will pick you, how can you guess it accurately? Life is a long road, when will there be an unexpected storm? The women who can help you through difficult times are often the women who help you build your life from scratch.
4. Don’t know what you want
There is another kind of being single at the age of 30 that is completely I don’t understand, a man who doesn’t know what he wants, and he doesn’t know what kind of woman would fall in love with him. What is their usual situation? It's just a constant feeling, intermittent wanting to fall in love. I am okay with my own conditions, and I also have fantasies about love, but when I meet a girl I like, it is inevitable that I will feel a little lackluster and unfamiliar., rashly chatting or confessing to others seems very deliberate. When rejected by a girl, he will be severely hit and unable to recover.
If you are a 30-year-old man who is still single, check to see if you fall into any of the above situations. If you want to be single, you must think clearly about it.
