Dating is a way to get to know the opposite sex, but it does not mean it will be successful every time. Sometimes a girl may feel that the other person is not suitable, so should the boy continue to pursue her at this time? This article will explore this issue from multiple perspectives.
1. Respect the girl’s choice
If the girl has made it clear that it is inappropriate, then the boy should respect her choice. Forcibly pursuing her will only make the girl feel stressed and troubled, and will make the relationship between the two more awkward. Therefore, boys should consider their actions rationally and respect girls' decisions.
2. Understand the girl’s thoughts
After the girl expresses inappropriateness, the boy can take the initiative to ask her why. Maybe it's because the two parties have incompatible personalities, different interests and hobbies, or other reasons. By understanding how girls think, boys can better understand the gap between themselves and girls and make better decisions.
3. Change yourself
If the girl thinks there are some problems between the two parties, the boy can consider changing himself to meet the girl's expectations. For example, if a girl thinks that a boy lacks a sense of humor, then the boy can try to learn some humor techniques to improve his image. Of course, this change should be voluntary and sincere, not to cater to the girl's expectations.
4. Give each other some time
Sometimes, girls may need some time to think about their thoughts. At this time, the boy should give her enough space and time so that she can calmly think about her choice. If a boy pursues a girl too eagerly, it will make the girl more irritable and troubled.
Dating does not mean that it will be successful every time. Should a boy continue to pursue a girl if she thinks it is not suitable? This article explores this issue from multiple perspectives such as respecting girls' choices, understanding girls' thoughts, changing themselves, and giving each other some time. Ultimately, we believe that boys should consider their actions rationally and respect girls' decisions.
